Be Irresistible, Click Here My brand new Soft Wife Life Prep: Online Dating Masterclass is now available! Claim Your Spot Today: ......
My brand new Soft Wife Life Prep: Online Dating Masterclass is now available! Claim Your Spot Today: ...
hey guys hope you're having a great start to your week I'm coming on with just a really quick message and a reminder that nobody is perfect this goes for everyone who's currently single or in a relationship or marriage this is just a reminder I'm sure that God has dropped this on my heart for a reason because right now someone needs to be reminded that nobody's perfect there is no perfect love in relationships there's no perfect people we are all human right we are all doing the best that we can can we do better can are we all a work in progress yes so the greatest love of our lives are perfectly imperfect we are perfectly imperfect when it comes to love and relationships and marriage expecting perfection in your partner expecting perfection in yourself um one of the things that I've noticed is like kind of like just epidemic levels is perfectionism social media is having this adverse effect on our psychology on society where we are striving for unrealistic perfectionist expectations of ourselves and of other people and it's very detrimental to our wellbeing to our mental health to our relationships and so it's important this is the reminder today when you are tempted to judge when you are tempted to critique when you are tempted to tear down yourself and others I want you to lean in to love lean into Grace lean into forgiveness it's going to take a whole lot of love Grace and kindness in dating in relationships and in marriage in order to have healthy relationships Carrie is not perfect I'm not perfect but we're perfect for each other and this is a simple message but I think it's so easy for our brains and ego and pride and arrogance to get over into a space where we are judging so harshly and we don't realize we've slipped over into perfectionism we slipped over into judgment into the judge's seat and we're for it's easy to forget all the wonderful good things about the people you love it's so easy to forget about the incredible wonderful amazing things that so far outweigh whatever negativities imperfections areas where there needs to be Improvement there's so many wonderful things about all of us but it's so easy to get into a spirit of judgment and critique where we're sitting in judgment and all we're focusing on is the imperfection all we're focusing on is the negative things and that's not healthy that's not good God wants us to focus on all the good right so it can be Amplified it can grow whatever you focus on grows whatever you give your energy and attention to grows is Amplified so being able to intentionally see the good in people is something that's got to become a skill that we curate that that mentality that psychology around looking at the good the blessings The Good the blessings The Good the blessings in all of us all the wonderful good things for those of you who tear yourself down all the time you're constantly in self- condemn condemnation mode guess what you got to start looking at all the good in you all the wonderful amazing things about you that make you so unique and wonderful amplify Encourage Yourself believe in yourself look at all the amazing things about you that are just absolutely wonderful it's so easy to look at oh I need to lose 10B oh I need more money in the bank oh but what do you have who are you right now look at all the wonderful blessings in your life look at how amazing you are and it starts with self if you tend to self-critique if you tend to be really hard on yourself guess what you tend to be really hard on other people too so this is the reminder all right make sure you get into the soft wife life prep online dating master class we start September 14th like 2 weeks we're starting make sure you grab your spot it's going to sell out I can't wait to work with all my mentees inside of that class for six weeks it's a six week Master Class about social media positioning yourself on social media and online dating to be found that's for women all right make sure you grab your spot in there it's 50% off for a limited time make sure you grab your spot thank you Carla she said love your hair thank you M grab your spot guys all right if you haven't taken the spiritual reset Workshop or the Forgiveness Workshop they're still free the link is in my bio for those free workshops as well that is your prep your softlife prep courses all right make sure you get inside of that those are free workshops those are spiritual healing Shadow work workshops make sure you get inside of there grab those and make sure you sign up for the online dating Master Class okay I love you guys this is just a simple reminder today love you bye-bye ...