Me 19 F and my boyfriend 19 M live together, we have been dating for about 2 years and I need help to know if I am overreacting or not. I kn...
Me 19 F and my boyfriend 19 M live together, we have been dating for about 2 years and I need help to know if I am overreacting or not. I know this is absolutely ridiculous and I feel silly writing this, but it’s driving me crazy.
I love him very much and I know that farting is normal. I’ve never been one to say eww you farted or eww you burped, I just don’t care as it’s normal. We’ve been very open and comfortable with each other from the beginning and we’ve farted in front of each other and it’s never been a big deal. At first, when I would sleep over and we would hug and he would fart and it was wrong, we would laugh and it was good.
But now we live together and I’m really upset about it, almost mad at him. I don’t know if it’s the protein powder he’s drinking or what. He poops 1-2 times a day, but his farts are always bad. And it’s not like a little touch, it’s like an earth tremor, the loudest farts I’ve ever heard. We’ve been living together for about 6 months and he farts as soon as we get into bed and it’s horrible.
I feel like I’m choking and some of them almost make me want to throw up. I was half tempted to go to sleep on the couch, but as soon as I was out of bed for more than 5 minutes, he wakes up and comes over to tell me to go back to bed.
I know he can’t help but fart, it would be awkward not to let him out, but it’s almost like he’s too comfortable with me and I’ve lost a little respect for him. I love him and we don’t have a problem, but this… this is driving me crazy. When our lease is up, if we can afford it, I want a two bedroom so I can have my own room again because
I don’t want to be woken up multiple times a night by the smell and sound. I love him, and I started to get openly angry when he farts and looks kind of sad, but I don’t think he gets it. My farts don’t normally smell, if they do it’s because I’ve had dairy that day, but I still do my best to get up and leave the room or warn him and they’re still not that bad. Please, what do I tell him so he understands that he’s not cute and I don’t know if he tries to get up or something.
If he’s sleeping that’s one thing, but it’s almost like I find it funny and I’m over it. How do I approach the conversation with him? What do I tell him so he won’t be hurtful and in a way that takes me seriously? And am I overreacting or am I alone in my frustrations? TL;DR My boyfriend farts a lot in bed and the smell makes me sick.
I kindly expressed my frustration and he doesn’t seem to care or understand the problem. It’s so bad that I want to sleep in separate rooms. I don’t know if I’m being unreasonable, but I need advice on how to approach the conversation. What do I tell him so he understands how frustrating it is?
Me 19 F and my boyfriend 19 M live together, we have been dating for about 2 years and I need help to know if I am overreacting or not. I know this is absolutely ridiculous and I feel silly writing this, but it’s driving me crazy. I love him very much and I know that farting is normal.
I’ve never been one to say eww you farted or eww you burped, I just don’t care as it’s normal. We’ve been very open and comfortable with each other from the beginning and we’ve farted in front of each other and it’s never been a big deal. At first, when I would sleep over and we would hug and he would fart and it was wrong, we would laugh and it was good. But now we live together and I’m really upset about it, almost mad at him.
I don’t know if it’s the protein powder he’s drinking or what. He poops 1-2 times a day, but his farts are always bad. And it’s not like a little touch, it’s like an earth tremor, the loudest farts I’ve ever heard. We’ve been living together for about 6 months and he farts as soon as we get into bed and it’s horrible. I feel like I’m choking and some of them almost make me want to throw up. I was half tempted to go to sleep on the couch, but as soon as I was out of bed for more than 5 minutes, he wakes up and comes over to tell me to go back to bed.
I know he can’t help but fart, it would be awkward not to let him out, but it’s almost like he’s too comfortable with me and I’ve lost a little respect for him. I love him and we don’t have a problem, but this… this is driving me crazy. When our lease is up, if we can afford it, I want a two bedroom so I can have my own room again because I don’t want to be woken up multiple times a night by the smell and sound.
I love him, and I started to get openly angry when he farts and looks kind of sad, but I don’t think he gets it. My farts don’t normally smell, if they do it’s because I’ve had dairy that day, but I still do my best to get up and leave the room or warn him and they’re still not that bad. Please, what do I tell him so he understands that he’s not cute and I don’t know if he tries to get up or something. If he’s sleeping that’s one thing, but it’s almost like I find it funny and I’m over it.
How do I approach the conversation with him? What do I tell him so he won’t be hurtful and in a way that takes me seriously? And am I overreacting or am I alone in my frustrations? TL;DR My boyfriend farts a lot in bed and the smell makes me sick. I kindly expressed my frustration and he doesn’t seem to care or understand the problem. It’s so bad that I want to sleep in separate rooms. I don’t know if I’m being unreasonable, but I need advice on how to approach the conversation. What do I tell him so he understands how frustrating it is?
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