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Ep 64: Pop The Balloon Or Find Love | With Arlette Amuli

Be Irresistible, Click Here Welcome back to my channel! In this episode we got singles from all across the USA! Pop that balloon if ...

Be Irresistible, Click Here

Welcome back to my channel! In this episode we got singles from all across the USA! Pop that balloon if you're not feeling the ...

Heat. Heat. Heat. Heat. Heat. Heat. N. Hey, hey, hey. Hello everyone and welcome back to my channel. It's your host Arlette and we are here with another episode of Pop the Balloon or Find Love and we've got some beautiful single ladies line up. Make some noise ladies. All right, so we're going to be bringing out some single men one by one when he comes around this corner. If he's your type, you like what you see, everything's looking good, sounding good, do not pop your balloon. However, if there's anything that you're really just not feeling, you cannot see yourself dating this man, go ahead and pop your balloon, and I'll go over to you and see why you ended up popping. Are you guys ready? Yes. All right. So, with that being said, let's go ahead and bring out our first single guy. Hello. Welcome in. What's your name? My name is Hardesty. Hardesty, how old are you? I'm 39. 39. Okay. And what do you do? I'm sorry. Sorry. What do you do? I'm a manager at a call center. Okay. Very nice. And where are you from? New Orleans, Louisiana. New Orleans. Nice. Okay. What are some things you like to do for fun? Um, I like to take care of my kids. I'm a father. Okay. I like to take care of my kids primarily, but um outside of that, I do a little music on the side. Okay. I I enjoy my job. All right. And how many kids do you have? I have six and two live with me. Okay. Okay. Okay. So, now what are some things you look for in a woman? I look for good mothers. Okay. I look for women who actually understand how to deal with kids. It kind of correlates to their personality. Okay, got it. And now, what are some of your deal breakers? [Music] That's a good one. A deal breaker would be I guess somebody who goes out a lot. Okay. You know, more of a homebody. I see. I do go out, but I'm more of a homebody. Okay, cool. Makes sense. So, we did get pop balloons. Let's go on over there and see why they ended up popping. All right. Your name and age. Hi, my name is Na and I'm 25. Okay. Uh, so Na, why did you end up popping your balloon? I popped my balloon because I was expecting more, you know, um, formal wear business. So, I was not impressed. Sorry. And now is she someone that's your type? that that cleavage. I mean, it's cute, but I don't know. I mean, it's okay. It's okay. Okay. But she she could be my type. I don't know her personally. And that's that's what is my type is once I know the person. Okay. Physically, it's she's cool. Okay. She's cool. Cool. All right. Thank you. Let's go over here. Your name and age? My name is Kayla High. I'm 31 years old. Okay. And uh Kayla, what do you do? I am a personal fitness trainer. I'm also a professional hip-hop dancer and I also own my own styling boutique business. So, if you ever need somebody to style you, hit me up. And why did you end up popping your balloon? Um, if I'm being completely honest, you're very nice. You seem handsome. I mean, not seem handsome, but you are handsome, but you seem nice. Um, six kids is a lot for me. I only have one child, so that's a lot. That's it. Beautiful. But you seem nice. Thank you. You're welcome. And is she someone that's your type? She could be definitely. I'm sorry. She She could be my type. She could be my type. I just would have to get to know her more for sure. Good. Thank you. Your name and age? Hi, my name is D. Michelle. I'm 27. And D. Michelle, what do you do? I am an international celebrity hair stylist. Nice. And so why'd you end up popping your balloon? Um, I pop because he said he does music. I'm not into guys that do music. Is there a reason for that? She's not my type. Okay. And now, um, is she someone that's your type? Physically, she's pretty. Okay. You know, um, as far as my type is concerned, it's always about the personality, getting to know the person. Yeah. Thank you. Let's go over here. Your name and age? Uh, Caitlyn and I'm 32. And Caitlyn, what do you do? Uh, I buy and sell tax leans and sell houses. And why'd you end up hopping your balloon? Um, he has a lot of kids and only two live with him and like if we were together, I want all the kids in the home. Like we're all together. We're all a family. I have kids, too. So, and I want more. So, it would just be How many kids do you have? I have two. Two. Okay. Got it. Mhm. All right. Now, she's someone that you or is she someone that you would approach since I know you said you want approach? Where? Where are you approaching me? She's pretty. No, she's pretty. She's physically pretty, but like I said, anything about getting to know a woman or liking the woman, I have to know more. I just have to know more. Okay, that's all. Thank you. Your name and age? Hi, my name is Erica. I'm 29. Okay. And Erica, what do you do? I'm a literacy coaching specialist. Okay. And why did you end up popping your balloon? So, I popped my balloon similar to her. I thought he was really nice. I'm from the south. I love New Orleans. And so I thought he seemed like a really nice guy, but it was the only a few kids live with him. I have a child and so I would like somebody who's like really involved with their kids. Yeah. So, same thing here. Yeah. She's physically pretty. I guess they wonder why I have two kids living with me. Well, the rest of my kids live in a different state. They visit I visit them. Yeah. But my primary two kids are from their first mom. It's my first kid's mom. So, they live with me. That's the reason for that. Okay. But she is beautiful. She's beautiful. Thank you. All right. Your name and age? Miracle. 31. And Miracle, what do you do? I'm a high school science teacher. Yeah. And why'd you end up popping your balloon? It was the 39 and the rapper or the music. Um, no judgment. It's just at 39 if your music hasn't like quite taken off, you know, how you would project it to be. Um, I kind of feel like it's more of a hobby. And, you know, at this age at 31, I'm looking for a man that has hobbies and loves music. I love music, too. And I write music. It's just that has a little bit more going for himself. That's all. It's not even the six kids. Um, how many baby moms? Three. Okay. Well, then it would have been that, too. But, but yeah, you're so handsome. Thank you. Mhm. All right. Thank you. And is she someone that's your type? She's okay. She's okay. She's okay. Okay. Okay. Yeah. Thank you. Let's head over. Well, I mean, I guess I only say that because of the knowing the person. My own She's beautiful. She's beautiful. Yes, they're all beautiful. Physically very beautiful. Honestly, all right. Well, that's all the balloons popped, unfortunately. But thank you so much for coming on. Let's give it up for him, ladies. I'll take the mic. Thank you. All right, let's go ahead and bring out our next single guy. Hello. Welcome in. There you go. What's your name? Hello, I'm Jay. Jay. Okay. Jay, how old are you? I'm 35. Okay. And what do you do? Uh, I'm an insurance broker. Insurance broker. Okay. And where are you from? I'm from Seattle. Seattle. Nice. Okay. What are some things you like to do for fun? Um, I like to work out. You know, I'm in the gym. Uh, you know, going to the casino, sports betting, watching sports. Um, and you know, just traveling. Okay. All right. And now, what are some things you look for in a woman? Um, loyalty, respect, you know, someone who, you know, knows what they want, you know, and independent at the same time. Okay. And now some deal breakers. Deal breakers. Uh, dishonesty. Um, and really just smoking cigarettes. I don't like that either. Okay. But yeah, that's pretty much it. That's pretty much it. Okay. Okay. Not bad. So, we did get some pop balloons. Let's go over there and see why they ended up popping. Let's start over here. Stand there. Your name and age. Hi, I'm Na and I'm 25. And Na, why'd you end up popping your balloon? I bought my balloon because you didn't come dressed to impress. So, that kind of just tell me, you know, I ain't feeling it. But you seem okay. So, yeah. And now is she someone that's your type? Um, she's cool. You know, like I probably wouldn't approach, but she's decent. Yeah. Cool. Thank you. Let's go on over here. Your name and age? My name is Kayla Higher and I'm 31 years old. All right. And Kayla, why'd you end up popping your balloon? He seems like a cool gentleman, but honestly, I do think that the fit speaks for itself. I feel like you could have came and put more effort into it, but at the end of the day, you still look like a nice gentleman. So, good job. Appreciate that. You're welcome. And now, is she someone that's your type? Um, no, not typically, but she's nice. I like her personality so far. Thank you. It's gone over here. Your name and age. Hi, my name is D and I'm 27. And do you Why'd you end up popping your balloon? Um, I popped because he said that he does sports betting and I'm just not into that. And is she someone that's your type? Um, she's cute, you know, like she's cute. Okay. Okay, cool. Thank you. Let's go over here. Your name and age? Caitlyn, 32. Okay. And Caitlyn, why'd you end up popping your balloon? Um, I just feel like he lacks confidence. Okay. What What makes you say that? The way he walked in, his posture, and everything. Jesus. All right. It's okay. Do you have anything to say in regards to that? Um, I mean, it's just first impression, I guess. She doesn't really know me, so I know enough. Oh, okay. All right. Is she someone that's your type? Um, yes, most definitely. Thank you. Thanks. Let's go here. Your name and age? My name is Erica. I'm 29. Okay, Erica. Why' you end up popping your balloon? So, I thought he seemed nice. I like his tattoos and that he likes to go to the gym, but I didn't like the casino and sports betting because it's like I work really hard. I like to go out and it's just not really something I like to do. And I think people I know that spend a lot of time in the casino can be irresponsible with their money and like what you do is dependent on how they do at the casino and I don't like that. So, yeah. That's cool. You know, I love her. All right. She's someone that's your type. Um, she's cute, you know, like I mean, not necessarily the typical type that I go for, but she's cute. Thank you. Thank you. Your name and age? Miracle, 31. All right. And Miracle, why'd you end up popping your balloon? Um, it was the reaction to her response. Um, or reaction. You were Well, you you were kind of like, okay. It was a little sassy. Yeah. to which comment? Uh to Caitlyn's comment about the confidence. Yes. Mhm. And I know you're like you're nervous. That that's what I felt. I didn't feel a lack of confidence. I felt like you were nervous. And I like the Saturn tattoo. I'm a Capricorn. But um yeah, I just didn't like that response. That was all. Okay. Okay. You hang on for so long. I was like, "Oh, I did. I Yeah. Yeah. Okay. And now is she someone that's your type? Um, she's cute for sure. Yeah. Thank you. All right, let's head on back. Well, fortunately, that's all the balloons popped, but thank you so much for coming on. I'll take the mic. Let's give it up for them, ladies. All right, let's go ahead and bring out our next single guy. Hello. Welcome in. What's your name? Assan. Assan, how old are you? 37. And what do you do? I'm a division manager for a home improvement company. Okay, nice. Where are you from? Originally from New York, but I live in Atlanta. Atlanta. Okay. And what are some things you like to do for fun? play ball, shop, and cook. Oh, you said and cook. Yeah, definitely cook. What's your favorite dish to cook? Uh, pasta, and I'm right now I'm working on seafood. Nice. All right. And now, what are some things you look for in a woman? Uh, peace, growth, maturity, um, definitely personality, and a sense of style. Okay. and some deal breakers. Uh lying, lack of loyalty, disrespect, things along that nature. Okay. So, we did get some pop balloons. Let's go on over there, see why they ended up hopping. Your name and age. Hi, I'm Na and I'm 25. And Naila, what do you do? I'm an administrator in the education field and I'm also a beauty influencer. Yeah. Very nice. And why did you end up hopping your balloon? I just feel like he could have dressed up more, but I like everything you was saying, but I feel like it kind of, you know, tell that you're more childlike, but that's okay. Yeah. All right. And now, is she someone that's your type? Uh, I would love to hear more. Didn't really hear too much based off, but I appreciate that she's an entrepreneur. Okay. Trying to do more. All right, cool. Thank you. Let's go on over here. Your name and age? My name is Kayla High Tower and I'm 31 years old. All right. And Kayla, why'd you end up popping your blue? Uh, I don't know. Initial attraction. I feel like you seem very cool. If I got to know you beyond here, you seem like a very chill and laidback kind of guy, and I respect that, but um, initially I'm just like, I don't I don't get the zazz that I'm looking for. So, but you seem cool. Thank you. Yeah. You're welcome. And now she's someone that's your type. That was hard. Um, not initially. No. Okay. So, the feeling is mutual. Um, I just looking at her and feel it. Yeah. Thank you. Thank you. Let's go on here. Your name and age. Hi. Hi. My name is D and I'm 27. All right. And D, why did you end up popping your balloon? Um, I popped because of how he dressed. They said come dress to impress for date night and that's not giving dress to impress or date night which is not my type. Okay. Yeah. Same thing here. Someone that's your type. No. No. Okay. And why not? Uh the outfit, the shoes. We're talking about outfit. Same way something's wrong with my outfit. Well, I came dressed for date night. So, yeah. But I'm also wearing a shirt that's Beyonce and all them wore. So, it's definitely missed. Well, you're not Beyonce. Oh. Oh, that's true. Yeah. Thank you. It's going over here. Your name and age? Caitlyn, 32. Okay. And Caitlyn, why'd you end up popping your balloon? Um, I'm just not initially attracted to him. Okay. Okay. And what would you say it is? Everything. Okay. Is she someone that's your type? No. Chest tattoos? No. Thank you. Let's go on over here. Your name and age? I'm Erica. My name is TW. Um, my name is Erica and I'm 29 years old. And Erica, why did you end up popping your balloon? I thought he was nice overall, but there was something missing. I think his personality was just very calm and I'm very calm. So, I like a man who's I think a little bit more like in charge, taking command of the space. So, yeah. Makes sense. No, she's someone that's your type. Yeah. Yeah. I like outfit. Thank you. And her smile. Thank you. Thank you. It's gone here. Your name and age? Miracle 31. All right. And Miracle, why'd you end up popping your balloon? It was the earrings. Yeah, they a little too big. But I could take them out. See, that's the difference. That's I know you can take them out. But you chose the outfit shouldn't dictate who I am as a person. You chose to wear them. So, but I also chose to support a designer of mine at the same time, too, though. Oh, okay. Okay. Oh, who is the designer? Ducky confetti. Oh, okay. So, that's nice. Yeah. You bought those like from his or her? No, he sells the clothing. I just happened to buy a jewelry from a jeweler that he's cool with. Just as to put a whole look together for Okay. The look you saying is from the designer. Okay. I didn't mind the look. It was just the earrings. But those could come out. They're not permanent. That's true. Like most things can change. They don't got to stay the same. Well, why' you wear them? I just The earrings. Yes. Oh, cuz I do like I do wear them every now and then. You like big? Nah, this No, not big. No, this is big, but I could get smaller or don't wear them at all. Okay. Yeah. Okay. Is it both size? I can't see. Oh, it is. Okay. If it was just my left, that would be different. That already says something. But yeah. Oh, I didn't know that. Thank you for telling me that. Okay. Okay. The left. Okay. But it was just the earrings. Honestly, the outfit is cool. You from New York, so you give like New York energy. My dad is from New York, so Yeah. And is she someone that's your type? Yeah, she is. Oh, thank you. Makeup is done right. Outfit is done right. Yeah. Thank you. All right. Thank you. Let's head on back. All right. Well, unfortunately, that is all the balloons pop, but thank you so much for coming on. Let's give it up for them, ladies. [Applause] All right, let's go ahead and bring out our next single guy. Hello. Welcome in. What's your name? My name is Sel. Sel, how old are you? I'm 33. My birthday's coming up. I'm be 34. All right. Happy birthday. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. And uh what do you do? I'm the owner and co-founder of Local Tax Pros, the number one tax office in Orlando, Florida. Okay. Okay. And is that where you're from? Orlando. Yeah, definitely. All right. And now what are some things I like to do for fun? Um everything. You name it. You know, I'm down for whatever. I u outdoors. Uh I'm down for um traveling. I'm down for um you you name it. Whatever it is, I'm down for it. Okay. You know what I'm saying? I'm with it. So, what are some things you look for in a woman? Uh loyalty, um support, um honesty. I want her to be her true self. I want her to be, you know, um a friend, uh a partner. I look for team teamwork. I look for, you know, um, you know, like-minded, you know, smart, uh, pretty, you know, whatever it is, just to kind of get the job done. Okay. You know what I mean? So, Got it. And what are some of your dealbreakers? My deal breakers is, you know, um, not being emotional intelligent, you know, sporadic, you know, um, you know, conf conflict driven, you know, um, things that just, you know, I'm not really with the drama. Okay? So, I like to be chill. I like to be cool. Um, so whatever, you know, if if she's not if she's with the drama, if she's just random things like that, I'm not really with all that. You know what I mean? I like to be cool. I want her to be cool, too. All right. You know what I mean? That's good. Yeah. So, we did get some pop balloons. Go on over there and see why they ended up popping. Definitely. Definitely. All right. Your name and age. My name is Kayla High, and I'm 31 years old. All right. And Kayla, why'd you end up popping your balloon? Um, the fit is a little all over the place for me, but but you seem like a very great gentleman after hearing everything you said. Your skin looks nice, so keep going. Appreciate it. You look good. Thank you. You look good, too. Thank you. Thank you. Okay. Especially someone that's your type. I like the hair. Thank you. I like the black. I like black, too. I like I wear a lot of black, too. I like the style. Feel like she got a little swag to herself, so I like it. You know, I mean, overall, I like it. But, you know, it is what it is. Thank you. You know what I mean? I appreciate it. Yeah, definitely. Yeah. All right. Your name and age? Caitlyn, 32. All right. And Caitlyn, why'd you end up popping your balloon? I hate the outfit. I hate it so bad. I'm sorry. Okay. Definitely. Like the whole thing or there's just one part? Okay. Okay. Now, is she someone that's your type? Uh, kind of. Not all the way. Okay. You know what I'm saying? Not all the way. You know what I mean? I like um again I like the black. You know what I mean? She wear black. I like black too. You know what I mean? I like the dark. You know what I mean? I like the light skin. I like the hair. I feel like the hair is done. But not all the way. I feel like personality is a big thing. I I really I don't really see the personality right now. So not not really my type right now. Yeah. So yeah. Thank you. Definitely. Let's go over here. Your name and age. Hi, my name is Erica. I'm 29. Okay. And Erica, why did you end up hopping your balloon? It gave pretty boy to me and that's just not my type. I like a little bit of roughness personally. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Have you heard that before? No, definitely not. Definitely not. All right. And uh is she someone that's your type? Not really. Um not really. She's cool. I think personality I feel like we could be friends. We could be cool. We could do things together, stuff like that. But I feel like as far as my type, no, definitely not. Um as far as a pretty boy comment, I'm definitely not a pretty boy. You know what I mean? I've you know, I've done seen it all, done it all. You know what I mean? I'm just came here this way to kind of be that way. You know what I mean? But I'm not that way. I got you. I love your smile. You seem like a nice guy. No, most definitely. I appreciate it. Thank you though. Definitely. Your name and age? Miracle. 31. All right. Miracle. Why did you end up popping your balloon? It was the tie. For sure. For sure. Okay. For sure. What about the tie? It's too short. Too short. And I mean, you really didn't need it. No, I feel that. I feel that. Yeah. If if you can you take it off? I can, but only if you connect with me. That's the only way. If you don't connect with me, I don't you know, I don't see the reason why. You know what I mean? I can only be me at the end of the day. But if you connect with me, you talk to me, I could definitely take the tie off. I'll allow you to take the tie off. Okay. Where you from? I'm from Orlando, Florida. Are you like Caribbean? Jamaican? Definitely. Definitely. I'm I'm Haitian. Okay, I see it. Yeah, for sure. You have nice skin. Thank you. Thank you. Caribbean. No. Yeah. Yeah, definitely. Okay, let me take this off. Yeah. Can I get my balloon? We'll talk about it. We'll talk about it. Okay. Definitely. Here. You want that balloon back? Yeah. Okay. Let's get that balloon back. Yeah. There you go. Thank you. That Yeah. The top so far. Yeah. It It matched my pants. So, you know what I mean? I get that. I saw that and I, you know, but then it was like, why is it so short? You gota have. But it's okay. It's okay. We gonna take it all. It's okay. You can take it home. All right. Well, we'll be back then. Since you got that balloon back, let's head on back this way. All right. So, we are down to three ladies. Go ahead and ask our remaining ladies a question. Um, okay. Um, so what's like a perfect weekend for you guys? Okay. Yeah, perfect weekend. Uh, name and age first. Hi, my name is Na and I'm 25. Nice. a perfect weekend just for myself or like with a partner. For yourself right now? Okay. So, I have a daughter. Nice. And she's almost two. So, we do a lot of activities together. That's my weekend for sure. Just having a ball with her. Um I rarely do much with friends, but a normal weekend is definitely kicking it with the baby girl, cleaning up. Um going to church on Sunday. That's my weekend. I like that. I like that. Okay. Thank you. Definitely. Your name and age and answer to his question. My name is D and I'm 27. And a perfect weekend for me would be um relaxing. Honestly, I like to do spa days and self-care things like that. And then on Sundays, typically I would go to church and spend time with my family. Nice. Nice. Okay. Name an age and answer to his question. The perfect weekend. Um Fridays I'm a teacher. So now I'm more chill, but normally uh probably would not want to do anything but like maybe wind down. So maybe like drink a nice, you know, fancy bottle of wine or something and like a night cap. Saturdays, um I love nature, so anything involving like maybe outdoors. And then uh I like to bowl as well or do like fun things like that. Um, Sundays is my day for jazz music. Like that's actually funny you ask cuz yeah, Sundays I listen to jazz music, um, classical music, but mainly jazz and clean up and just kind of reset my week. So yeah, that's the perfect weekend for me. Yeah, I like that. I like that. Yeah. All right, let's head on back this way. So I'm now going to hand you a pick. Okay. Okay. So, I am gonna have you actually ask these three remaining ladies another question before you pop. Okay. Um, where are you guys from and what do you do for a living? Let's start there and come back. All right. Where are you from and what do you do for a living? I'm from Houston, Texas. And I'm a high school science teacher. Biology. Nice. Nice. Okay. All right. And then over here, um, I just moved to New York and I am an international um, hair stylist. I have a salon and I mentor and coach people. Okay. Okay. And over here, I'm from Chicago. I just moved to Wisconsin though, but I'm a administrator in the education field and I'm also in the beauty influencer field. Okay. Yeah. All right. Time to pop. I got to pop. You got to pop. I know it's tough. Okay. All right. All right. Um, okay. I'll have you stand right there. All right. So, why was your balloon unpopped? He's super handsome. Um, he has a nice smile. Um, I can tell he's very gentle. Yeah. So, I'm looking for that in a man. But yeah, that was why I didn't pop. All right. And why'd you end up popping hers? It wasn't easy, but because of the other choices. Because of other choices. Um, I think she's a great woman. Um, from what I heard, um, the fact that she even got her balloon back was really great. Um, which made also really hard cuz I feel like she really is into me. But um I also I feel like I connect better with the other ones that that are here. So yeah. Okay. Yeah, definitely. Yeah. Thank you. Yeah. All right. Go ahead and ask our two remaining ladies another question. Uh okay. Um my question would be um what would be your um your goals for the next let's just say three years. What's one of your goals for your next the next three years? years. I wouldn't say five years, but next three years. Three years short term. Let's go here first. Yes. So, for the next three years, I'm currently building out um a really big salon in New York City. So, that's a part of my three-year plan. Um it'll be open very soon, though. But within the next three years, I would like to retire from working behind a chair and just automate my businesses like from home so that way I'm not so um hands-on. I can do things, you know, whenever I want to. Yeah. Okay. I like that. And what about right here? So, in the next 3 years, I would like to start my real estate journey, more so short-term rentals, like you know, Airbnb. I really feel like I'll thrive in that field. I'm into design, interior design. So, that's why it's really fun for me. And I also want to start speaking, being an empowerment for women. So, that's my three-year plan for sure. Okay. Okay. And ladies, any questions for him? So, where are you stationed and do you have children? Yeah. Um, so I'm in Orlando, Florida. Um, I have a six-year-old boy son and that's Yeah, that's about it. Okay. Yeah. Do you think you want more children? I would like more more kids in the future. Um, not right away. I'm willing to take my time with it. Um, but I would like more kids eventually. Okay. Yeah. And how do you feel like what's something that drives you like in a relationship? Like what's why do you want to be in a relationship? Like what do you look for the most from it? Um I'm like a selfless person, you know what I mean? I'm more into like just making the person happy. You know what I mean? Hoping that it they would think the same and hopefully they want to make me happy as well. I'm into just making them happy, making them like successful. I'm I'm into investing into their goals and dreams and things like that. You know, I just want to I for the last few years, I've been thinking about myself for a long time. So, I want to change things and start thinking about somebody else other than myself and invest into them and see what they can do. See what, you know, just make someone else happy besides myself. I've been making myself happy for a while now. So, I want to get into a space where I'm making somebody else's somebody else happy. So, yeah. So, you live with your son? Is did your son live with you? My son um our uh we have a co-parenting relationship. So, what we do now is 50/50. So, he's with me 50% of the time. So, note that for you. Yeah, definitely. Okay. Yeah. Any questions here? Yes. What do you bring to the table in a relationship? In a relationship, I I believe I bring, you know, support. Um I bring um joy. I bring laughter. I bring um I bring um a sense of style, you know what I mean? I bring a sense of like, you know, um um because I'm a business person, I bring um a business knowledge, I bring, you know, um entrepreneurship, I bring you name it, I bring it I'm just Yeah, for sure. I just think I'm that. So Okay. And do you have a morning routine? Yes. My my morning routine would be just uh I wake up at 6:00 a.m. Um I take for the first hour, you know, I don't text, call anyone, things like that. I take care of myself for that first hour. Um then um from there, you know, I um you know, I contact my partners, my business partners, my employees, things like that and I kind of get started from there. So I give them I typically start around myself, I start at six, but from for my staff members and things like that, I start at seven for them. Okay. And do you have a relationship with God? Absolutely. Absolutely. What's it like? I uh my relationship with God is personal, you know? Uh I don't go to church every day. I would like to go more, you know, I mean, I think my my relationship with God could be better, but uh my relationship I have now is personal. I kind of, you know, I pray. Before I came here, I prayed, you know what I mean? I make sure everything works out. You know, I mean, everything I if I believe in something, I make sure I include God. Um with my business as well, I include God with everything. Anything I I do and I believe in, I include God. Okay. So, my relationship with God is pretty I think it's pretty good, but I also feel like it's it could be better. You know what I mean? But as of right now, that's what it is. Okay. You know what I mean? More questions. All right. It's that difficult time where you got to make the decision between these two beautiful ladies. Definitely beautiful ladies. For sure. Definitely. So, whose balloon are you gonna end up popping? C one more question. Go ahead. Um it's um it's the age thing for me. I think that'll decide u I just want to know um what what the what the ages are. Definitely. Okay. What's your 25? 25. I'm 27. 27. Definitely. And then how old are you again? I'm 33. 33 at the moment. Okay. Yeah. All right. Whenever you're ready, go ahead and pop one balloon. Um this isn't easy. We have two beautiful ladies. I feel like they both match my style as far as, you know, entrepreneurship and goals. They're goal driven definitely. Um, but I I my decisions go based off like, you know, um what's what's more fitting, okay, to me. Yeah. You know what I mean? So, I'm going to go ahead and pop. Mhm. All right. So, why was your balloon unpopped? I like the way he speaks. Um, I like that you match your side with your pants, so it made sense. Um, but yeah, you seem cool. Yeah, like I like more professional guys, so that's why I didn't match with the other ones. But you seem nice. I like your personality. I like that you care about guy, everything like that, you know. Yeah. Thank you. For sure. Thank you. Okay. Thank you. And then you end what end up helping her out of the team. Honestly, I had to make a decision. um honestly and she has a lot of great things going for herself which I really appreciate some of the things she mentioned some of the things that I'm into as well you know um but I I think it was more so with the age thing u I think I don't um I more so would like someone that's like closer to my age to where we can actually like you know just get going you know what I mean and I feel like um that's what helped my decision a little bit. Yeah, for sure. It's nothing against her though. For sure. I didn't think it was. Yeah. No, definitely not. Definitely not. All right, cool. I'm gonna have you scoot that way for me. Keep on going. Keep on going. Keep on going. I'll have you join us up here. Stand right on over here. Yeah. All right. Any final question between the two of you before we determine if we've got a match? Can you ask this question first? I think. Yeah. If you don't have one, that's fine as well. Not off the top of my head. Not off the top of my head. Um, do you travel? I do travel. Yes. Okay. I do have another question. Sorry. Okay. Um, so if you were to lose everything tomorrow, what skill set would you use to get everything back? Um, first I'll put God first cuz I feel like without God I won't be able to do anything. Um, so I would put him first. Then the skills that I do have um which is many skills which is um my finance skills um which um finance skills, my consulting skills, things like that. I'll get into you know either helping others cuz I do believe um like in the Bible says um you got to be of service. So, I'll find ways to be of service to others and u and build my way back up that way. Okay. Yeah. All right. Well, let me ask my final question then. Is it a yes for you for him? Yes. Okay. And is it a yes for you for her? Most definitely. We got a match. I'll take the mic. All right. And y'all can go on off. Get your lady. Make some noise for them ladies. [Laughter] All right. Okay, let's go ahead and bring out our next single guy. Hello, welcome in. What's your name? Chris. Chris, how old are you? I'm 37. And what do you do? Uh, I partner in a car dealership in Atlanta called KLS Auto Brokers. I own a pretty decentsized fleet of rental cars and I founded a company called The Rich Neighbors that teaches entrepreneurs and people who want to become entrepreneurs how to weaponize their credit to catapult their financial dreams. Um, and I do it for free in the hopes that we change our financial culture. Okay. All right. And now what are some things you like to do for fun? Um, my sons. I've got a 10-year-old and a 2-year-old. Uh, the first one taught me what love was. The second one taught me accountability. So, I mean, up until now, they've kind of been my focal point. And I bowl, but it's bowling. Okay. And now, what are some things you look for in a woman? Um, truthfully, um, here because I'm trying to find someone that can be my superhero while I try to save the world. So, it's kind of open. Okay. The narrative, right? Okay. I see. And now what are some of your deal breakers? Um liars. But ultimately it's uh like again I'm open so try to take people at what they are. Okay. All right. Cool. Sounds good. So we have not got any pop balloons. So I'm going to actually go ahead and just have you ask our ladies a question. Um okay. So h I guess my question would be um I'm trying to build something big like a legacy. Okay. Um while I'm trying to save the world and be everybody's superhero, how would you have my back while I try to have theirs? And what would you expect in return? Okay. All right. Okay. We'll be back. We'll start here. Name and age and answer to his question. My name is Kayla Hatar. I'm 31 years old. Um, I am a person that loves to just be in tune with the person that I'm with. So, already naturally probably would know what you need. Um, but if we're speaking emotionally, spiritually, physically, I would like to cater to all those different avenues. Um, I'm more of a spiritual person. So, I feel like anything spiritually I can do for you will allow me to be able to fall into every other category. Um, so I'm definitely going to pray for you. I'm definitely going to be on my knees to be able to talk to God about you and what it is that you need. I'm also going to talk to you verbally to be able to see what it is that we can do, how it is that I can service you. Um, I'm a natural intimate woman, but only so many men can get that from me. So, if you leading me, I can be able to follow behind you, right? So, yeah, I just feel like, you know, whatever you pour into me, I can pour into you. And I just would love to be able to just be there to be by your side and push you up and be like, nah, another day for sure. Thank you. It's going over here. Your name and age and answer to this question. Uh, Caitlyn and 32. Can you ask the question again? I asked um I stated that I was trying to build something big and build a legacy and I asked Yeah. So, I stated I stated that I'm looking to build something big and build a legacy and I asked um how you would be able to support me or I guess have my back while I try to have everyone else's and what you would expect in return. Okay. Um so, it would be supporting you mentally, physically, and spiritually. Um I'm getting my masters in clinical mental health counseling. So like I'm very good with like reading body language and gestures and just like the way you like walk in. So I'd be able to um service you in that way. I would know when you have a hard day and how to help out. And then in return um I would ask for um just feeling safe at all times. Um feeling supported. Um obviously loyalty. I feel like that's like that's the foundation that shouldn't be like in it. You know what I'm saying? Um, and yeah, that's pretty much it. Let's go here. Name and age and answer to his question. Hi, my name is Erica. I'm 29. And so, I would say my answer is that I'm a doctoral student. I'm working on my doctorate. I also want to save the world. And so, that's the first thing is that I'm an intellectual. I'm somebody that you can talk to about what you're going through, what you're working on, and be able to communicate with you. Um, as far as how I would support you, I don't know. I'm observant. Everybody likes something different. I don't have a go-to. I like to learn what people's love language is and love them how they desire to be loved. And so, I would watch and see how you like to be loved and provide that type of love. And in return, I would ask for the same support. Um, again, I want to save the world in my own way. I work in education. I'm very passionate about helping students. And so, I would want to take some of that knowledge that you have and give it to me so that way we can both accomplish our dreams. Mhm. Okay. Your name and age and answer to his question. Miracle 31. Um I I'm a practical person. So I would say I could help you in administrative type of ways, organization ways. Um very organized and I know how to compartmentalize really well. So I could help you maybe where you kind of have these big big ideas and big you know um altruistic feelings about things. I could help you to bring it back to earth a little bit and um actually scale it properly or you know put systems in place. just be more organized because when you're a dreamer sometimes you can kind of go left field uh with your passions but you need someone that can kind of anchor you. So that would be how I would support. Can I ask why you want to do what you're doing? Um, yeah. I just kind of got tired of all these like overpriced mentorships, a bunch of gurus online that are selling people dreams and felt like the only way to do something about it is to take the information that I knew and give it away. I love that. I like that you're doing it for free in a sense. I'm kind of wondering how you make money, but I'm like, okay. I own the dealership, so Oh, yes. Okay. Okay. That's why. Okay, got you. because I'm like, "Hey, free is nice." But but okay. Yeah, that's wonderful. Okay. Thank you. All right. So, we did get two pop balloons over here. Why'd you end up popping your balloon? Um, he's very handsome by the face, very nice, very well built. I could tell that you are in the gym. Um, I could tell that you take care of yourself mentally. Um, I don't know. I didn't feel that spark between us. So that's that's it. That's all. And now is she someone that's your type? Um, she's definitely Oh, she's definitely soft spoken. Um, definitely attractive. I do go to the gym often. Shout out Hard Body HBX Fitness. Um, but yeah, it's I definitely respect her decision. Okay, cool. But am I your type is the question. Excuse my name. Go around the question, huh? Cuz cuz what? Yes. Yes. Thank you. All right. Thank you. Okay. Your name and age and why did you end up popping your balloon? My name is Nila. I'm 25. I pop my balloon because I didn't like the introduction to us is how we can be um servicing you. I understand your point, but maybe that could have been your second or your third question. I feel like all you seeing is how we look and then you're hearing how we beneficial to you. I just didn't like that. So you could have said something like asking about us personally, you know. So I didn't care to sell myself to you right now. Understood. Um the question was open-ended. Um I asked what you would be able to do for me. Yes. But I also asked what you would expect in return. Um, I don't think that any relationship is one-sided. I feel like there's I mean it's more than two sides cuz it's me, you, and your family and mine. So, the reason why I asked what you would expect in return is because I know that I have to bring something also. Um, but I probably worded it wrong. It wasn't the question. It was just that that was your first question. I probably would have been more receptive to it if it wasn't your first. You didn't care about the ladies first and who we are and then you could have seen how can we been beneficial to each other. You get that? I understand. And it's that's all though. It's okay. We're all here because in past relationships we probably put somebody else first. So coming out here we kind of got to put oursel first. So I asked the question yes with myself first but never closedend it because I want to know what I have to also offer in that situation. Y thank you. All right. So we do have three ladies left. Let me go ahead and hand you a pick. Just hang on to that. There you go. And I'll have you ask them another question before you pop. Um, so a deeper question. Um, what does loyalty look like to you when stress, money, and temptation are involved? Okay, start here first. Um, loyalty looks like to me when stress I forgot what else he said, but when all that is involved, um, just unwavering honesty, respect, um, self-control, um, like your morals and your principles cuz like everybody's going to crack, but like how far are you going to crack? You know what I'm saying? Like just being able to still like have everything under control is very important not to make any mistakes that you really can't come back from or that like disgraces you or your family or your partner. Let's go on over here. All right. Do you want to go ahead and answer his question? Yes. For me, I would say honesty and vulnerability. And so you spoke about temptation. And so it's about as soon as something comes up, being willing to say like, "Hey, this is how I feel. This happened. I want to clue you in on the beginning before it goes further. Okay. And what about right here? Uh loyalty in the face of temptation or you mean like lack of money? Um in general it could be an abundance of or a lack of. It causes problems either way. Right. Right. Uh loyalty looks like being consistent. Uh, loyalty looks like showing up even when it's difficult to. Um, and loyalty to me, I guess, looks like um staying like for the long haul, not like looking for a short or quick um outcome from the situation or quick fix because it could be money problems for years, you know, situations like that. So, so yeah, just um I guess longevity. That's what it looks like for me. All right. So, I am going to have you pop one balloon out of these three beautiful ladies left. Go ahead and pop one balloon. Okay. Sorry. Okay. All right. So, Miracle, why was your balloon unpopped? Uh, he's handsome. Um, I like that he mentioned his two sons being a part of his life. I like everything that he has going for himself. Mhm. And why'd you end up hopping her balloon? Um, hesitation. Okay. In hesitation and uh her response. So, it was I don't know. It's instinct, I guess you would say. Oh, I was just thinking. Yeah. I don't want to sound stupid, that's all. You didn't you didn't sound you didn't sound stupid at all. But it wasn't like I was hesitant because that's not how I feel. It's just I just didn't want to say anything um not accurately, I guess. Thank you. All right, so our two ladies left. Any questions for him? You ready? Okay. Um, so you mentioned that you have multiple businesses, multiple things going on, and so I would ask, what's your biggest passion and how did you get into it? Um, my biggest passion is helping. Um, with selling cars, you kind of start the conversation off as the bad guy. And when you actually help somebody get what they want, even in situations where you've got someone with grape juice money trying to buy wine, It's fulfilling even if it's just a short fulfillment or short sense of joy, but that's probably my biggest passion right now business-wise. Okay. Thank you. Yeah. Any questions here? Do you want ch more children? Uh definitely. Um I've got five brothers and five sisters and I'm in the middle. So couple more. I don't want 10 more kids. There's not enough time. Um, but I definitely want more kids. Do you have any kids? I do. I have two. Yes. And how how old are they? Uh, 10 and eight. Oh, it's a basketball team. A squad. Okay. Any other questions? Um, so a question to you two would be, are you religious? Um, I think both of you actually said that you were. Um, so the question would be how religious are you and where are you from and is distance an issue for either of you? Um, yes I am religious. Um, long distance is not an issue. Where are you from? Uh, Phoenix well yeah, Phoenix, Arizona, but I live up north. Okay. What about over here? Okay. Yes. So I am religious. I'm a spiritualist also. I have a deep connection to God. Uh, I'm from Phoenix, but I live in Mississippi. And I will be in Atlanta this week. I love Beyonce. I love to travel. That's where I'm going. Hey, so yes, it's not really a big issue for me. And I actually go to Atlanta pretty often. So, okay. Nice. All right. Well, it is that time to pop. You got to hear from our beautiful ladies, but we do have to now pop one of their balloons. [Laughter] Okay. Oh, I need a second. I know it's tough. I thought I was going to be holding. Okay. Okay. So, why'd you end up popping? Um, he's handsome. Everything that say he's saying is really good. Um, but I just don't know if compatibility overall would be a match. So, is she someone that's your type? Um, someone that I in the past have gone over for after over and over and over again. So, compatibility might have been an issue. Thank you. All right, so let's all head back up this way. Come on up with us. I have you scoot that way for me. No, no, no. You'll come on this side. I was telling him to scoot over. All right. Do you guys have any final question for one another? I have a question. I want to know whose balloon were you going to pop because you kind of got it out there at the end. That was just for dramatic effect. Okay. But not yours. Okay. Okay. All right. So, that's your question. Yeah. Yeah. Do you have a final one or no? Good. Okay. Well, let me ask mine then. Is it a yes for you for him? Yes. Okay. And is it a yes for you for her? Yes. We got a match. I'll take the mic and you guys can go on your lady. Make some noise for them ladies. [Laughter] ...