Be Irresistible, Click Here Happy New Year! Welcome back to my channel! In this episode we got singles from all across the USA! Pop ...
Happy New Year! Welcome back to my channel! In this episode we got singles from all across the USA! Pop that balloon if you're ...
[Music] n hello everyone and welcome back to my channel it's your your host arlet and we are here with another episode of pop the balloon or F love and we've got some beautiful Single Ladies line up Make Some Noise ladies okay you guys sound so ready so I'm going to be bringing out some single men when they come around this corner if you're feeling him you like what you see all that good stuff do not pop your balloon however if there's anything that you're really not feeling he says something that's crazy whatever it is go ahead and pop your balloon and I'll go over to you and see why you ended up popping you guys ready yes ma'am all right well with that being said let's go ahead and bring out our first single guy hello welcome in what's your name my name is shod I'm 34 and shod what do you do I'm the owner of opulence Imports in uh South Florida and basically we do performance parts for vehicles we ship worldwide and we actually do track bills as well okay what do you like to do for fun so jet skis uh dirt bikes okay I like to play pool okay um swimming going to the beach um and I like to dance all right now what do you look for in a woman I look for a caring woman someone that's kind considerate someone that's kind considerate uh knows what she wants out of life creative yeah okay and a nurture all right now what are some of your jailbreakers uh lack of empathy MH I'd say selfishness okay not having Vision a purpose for your life okay and um I say that's it for now okay no that's good all right so none of the ladies have popped their balloon yet you're doing well so let me go ahead and hand your pick I'm going to have you hold on to that and I know this is the hard part but I'm going to have you pop two balloons whenever you're ready go ahead and pop two balloons I know everyone says that you you are all beautiful ladies yes they [Music] are okay and one more come on Shad you okay let's start with the first one you ended up popping if we can have your name and age hi I'm Carmela and I'm 31 and Carmel what do you do I'm a flight ATT tenant all right so why did you have your balloon unpopped um I was just listening to everything that he said he seemed very mature so I just wanted to hear more okay is he someone that is your type yes absolutely all right so why do we end up popping her balloon you're a very beautiful woman I love your locks uh you did a great job with your makeup your lashes on fleek okay um I'd say based off of the lineup here more of the physique I'd be a little bit more attracted to some of the other women based on that okay no problem thank you but you're beautiful as I thank you as I said before let's go the next one here let's start with your name and age Mimi 28 and Mimi what do you do I'm a clinical therapist okay so why did you have your balloon unpopped um I just wanted to hear him out um I liked the things he said about what he did for fun very spontaneous so yeah I just wanted to hear him out okay so why'd you end up popping her balloon beautiful smile I love the nose piercings they're nice you're tired is A1 you know I don't really have any complaints about you uh I'd say I I'm just more physically drawn to the the other women that's it you know no problem nothing against you thank you okay let's head on back all right so we do have five remaining ladies go ahead and ask them a question to help you narrow it down in a society that I would say glorifies extrinsic values such as wealth and social status what would be a intrinsic value that is important to you intrinsic let's start here name and age hey my name is shalain I am 32 years old and shalain what do you do I am an office manager for like a really big company and I also model part-time to supplement that income all right all right so if you want to go ahead and just answer his question um I'm thinking an inter uh empathy maybe would be a good answer like I kind of forget the question you want me to repeat it for you yes please yeah so what would be an intrinsic value that is important to you okay yeah so my answer stands it would be empathy I think navigating this Society this world with empathy is super important because it all allows you to like understand people and just you're able to kind of relate to people more and just have more compassion towards people and I think having compassion towards your fellow humans is super important so that's something I put high value on I appreciate you answer your name and age hi my name is Lynn I'm uh 28 and Lynn what do you do uh I'm a design engineer okay so if you want to go ahead and just answer his question um what do you mean by intrinsic okay so so extr would be in the realm of uh you know social status uh popularity uh you know wealth so basically the opposite of that something you can't see physically off you know initial something that's like internal that I Val you yes okay um for me I was I would say humbleness just based off what I do for work and the like how far I've come I would say that I'm very humble with where I am today and I just feel like take your time um yeah I would I would say humbleness just because like life is short and you never know the different paths that people walk so I'd never Jud judge a book by its cover regardless of how much money you have or how much money you don't I just feel that everyone should just be humble um and yeah just I would say humbleness yeah um yeah based off yeah based off like my lifestyle and what I and kind of like my day-to-day I don't feel that I'm better or lesser than anyone it's kind of just like I just view everyone as equal essentially yeah humbleness I appreciate your answer and your transparency and you say you were 28 yes 28 beautiful all right let's go over here your name and age my name is Waverly and I am 30 years old hey and Waverly what do you do I I am a digital marketing manager and a college professor and consultant all right so if you want to go ahead and just answer his question um an intrinsic value that I really value is going to be my faith um just because it's taken me a long way in life um and it's something that like you can essentially hold close to you at night like when the money's gone if you don't have a place to sleep like the Father the Holy Spirit Yeshua is my Foundation yeah that's that's perfect and over here your name and age Ayanna and I'm 27 Ayanna what do you do I'm a personal trainer girl and if you want to go ahead and just answer his question okay so what I would say is um what I learned throughout my years is definitely being adaptive and being able give yourself Grace um life is not perfect you're going to go through things you're going to go through ups and downs so I feel like it's up to that person person know okay let me adjust or let me make let me pivot a little bit and move forward it's not trying to fit in the box or fit uh fit societal Norms so that's what I would say is the main factor that I takeen it's always being adaptive and giving myself Grace when things don't work out the way I want perfect I love it all right if we can have your name and age hi I'm ni I'm 32 and uh what do you do so I'm an insurance CL suggester bartender singer songwriter model overall creative very busy all right if you want to go ahead and answer his question so an intrinsic value that I have is accountability um whenever I um feel as though that I've mistreated someone I automatically apologize or even if they didn't state that they felt harm um I recap things that happened and I reach out to them and say hey was this an issue like how can we fix this were you okay with this so I would say accountability okay cool wonderful I love it thank you all right so we did get two pops back here what did end up hopping our balloon um for me it was just the initial attraction it just wasn't immediate but I like everything you had to say though cool thank you now is she someone that's your type yes definitely you know I like her her whole decorum thank you uh you know her sense of style is amazing you know I love women so you know yeah okay no I say that to say that I love like I don't have many deal breakers when it comes to like how a woman puts herself together that's what I mean by I love women so I would never if I see a woman that takes time and to put into her appearance whether it's makeup whether it's her lashes whether it's her hair you know accessories stuff like that I look look at that as she's putting forth the effort and trying to show me her best her best side you know so that's what I meant by your decorum and thank you don't beg okay why'd you end up popping your balloon um I love how you're dressed you look good you clearly you know take pride in your parents you came out here today and you look good when she gave her answer about religion and she said um her intrinsic value is like religion and her faith and all of that you said that it was you your response was perfect I think I'm not a religious person so if you value that then I'm probably like not the person for you cuz I'm not a religious person so that's why I popped and uh if you don't mind me asking what do you believe in honestly right now I'm not sure I grew up Pentecostal like heavily Christian um but right now I don't have any core beliefs in terms of religion okay well I respect that okay you know I would never put anyone down based on their Journey cuz we're all on a Journeys absolutely so I respect that I believe that two people two adults could have different belief systems and still respect each other okay you know so I respect you okay thank you I appreciate that all right now is she someone that's your type absolutely I'm you know all beautiful ladies thank you you know I love the shortcut oh word I do I do you know the color in the hair everything is you know I appreciate that thanks you're welcome you're welcome all right thank you okay so we've got three ladies left go ahead and ask them another question okay what is a passion of yours uh say it's okay if your passion brings you money but if you were to do something that did not pay you money and you would still find enjoyment out of that what would that passion be okay let's start over here my name and age again oh just answer the question answer the question okay um a passion of mine is actually homemaking like I love curating an environment for my friends and family that feels warm and welcoming so like from cooking baking um hosting um yeah I love all of that yeah cool I appreciate your answer and over here answer just question Fitness I love the gym um I live in the gym most of the time so as long as as I'm able to do that it it just makes me feel more so wholesome yeah and let's go to our last Lady your answer so um obviously I would say singing songwriting um I just really love incorporating sounds of nature in order to um just really relax Humanity so okay uh can I ask her a question uh what genre of music do you sing oo so um originally I started with R&B but I'm kind of all over the place right now um I want to dab to I'm a piano I also want to do a little bit of rap um a little bit of alternative so but mainly R&B wonderful all right okay it is time to pop a balloon whenever you're ready go ahead and pop one all right so why did you have your balloon unpopped so um I wanted to hear him out I think he's a ver person um but for me originally I was going to pop because he seemed very hesitant when it came to me and then I heard him talking about like body physiques and stuff like that which is fine you like what you like um so me just thinking of the lineup I'm like okay he has a better you know stance with other beautiful women compared to me so that's what it was that was my thought got it so why jender popping her balloon I'll be honest with you when I saw you do that pump fake I was like yeah I I didn't even have to think after that you know at first it was hard cuz I was really examining all three exceptional options you know all three of you are my type you get what I'm saying so I see beauty in different ways so maybe one thing might not fit me but maybe you might fit me you know so I just po basically because I saw you do the pump fake like you about to pop it so I was like you know what if you hesitant about me then i' rather go with someone as sure yes defin we're besties we were thinking the same thing you pum we locked in but yes all right we good thank you okay Shan go ahead and ask our two remaining ladies another question do you value romance and if you do what would be a romantic date in your mind you know from start to finish How would how would How would what would your ideal romantic date be okay start there and then come back all right um so a romantic date for me would well I don't know I would say I'm very easygoing um we can honestly do whatever um it really depends on how attentive we are to each other um if we're actively listening um you could even just pick an apple off the tree and just tell me to eat it and I know it sounds real corny but I'm someone who's real simple like we can just take a walk in the park have a really in-depth conversation so and then in the Night Under the Stars maybe just sitting on a blanket so great answer all right and over here um peeking backing maybe on her don't be cheap now oh I like like really elevated like dining experiences so maybe a nice dinner but then after dinner being able to like go dancing whether it be like salsa I really love like SOA music um yeah so an activity and food in combination would be nice ladies great answer any I'm I'm GNA switch it on over to them now so ladies any questions for him you one okay yeah I have I have several go for it okay um my first one is do you partake in any um uh what's it called any drug use of any kind no I do not okay oh I can keep going yeah here girl um what is um if you are a man of Faith like what is your faith and like what would does your day-to-day look like with spending time with God if that's something that you do okay so I'm a Christian uh and basically my day-to-day walk would be me waking up in the morning first thing I do I have like a bottle of water by my bed I drink that I pray to God you know thank him for waking me up this morning for giving me the you know all my faculties on my body are in perfect working order you know a lot of people take that for granted you know to have just to be able to just wake up and get out of your bed on your own will and to be healthy you know so I don't take that for granted and I thank him every day for that that's the first thing I do and then I ask him to basically guide my steps throughout the day you know so from my wake up you know everything from what I eat to you know showering I'm always like talking to him at different intervals of the day like I'd say like a little short prayer prayer like all right I'm about to go on the street uh you know there's traffic out there people meet in traffic I just asked for guidance along my journey to get there and get back to my family you know safely mhm and that's it do you have kids and where do you live I do not have any children as of yet and I live in uh South Florida okay do you have any children no and where do you live I live in Dallas Texas okay perfect good yes all right let's head down over here okay any questions over here absolutely um do you believe in crying in front of your woman I'm not a very crying person you know what I'm saying but I do show emotion and I do show vulnerability but to break out crying I'm not I'm not built like that you know what I'm saying I'm built as I have like a intestinal fortitude inside of me so if something's going bad you know I I recoup reather myself and I think of Solutions on how I could get over that obstacle so for me to get to the point of crying that's that's never going to happen or before I say never it would rarely like the the chances are very slim you know what I'm saying but I would express to you like hey you know babe something going on with me right now I'm not feeling you know certain certain things and I probably bounce some ideas off you and you know cuz I I like the inside of a woman as well you know I'm very driven I'm very focused and I know what I want but at the same time I have a partner I like to see things through her eyes her through her vision because believe it or not I don't know everything my woman might see something that I can't see you know what I'm saying so I I value her imp her input her opinion and her guidance as well MH so is it something that you're comfortable with if it were to happen to the point where you couldn't compartmentalize it anymore okay I believe in mental health so if it gets to a point where my mental health is in danger then of course you got to let it out you know what I'm saying of course yeah you you got to let it out and kind of purge yourself of you know what I'm saying whatever you know that hurt whatever it is you know so yes it if it comes to that point where my mental health would be on the verge of breaking I would definitely you know have that outpour okay do you have any children and where do you live I don't have any kids um but I currently live in Dallas Texas okay and uh are you okay with commuting to Florida yeah I love traveling okay perfect wonderful okay those are two wonderful ladies they had a lot of great responses I know this one's going to be tough for you but we do have to pop a balloon oh what's going over there all right why did you end up popping your balloon um I just really feel like they they'd be a beautiful pair for sure so yeah okay you blocking your own blessings but is he someone that's your type yeah I'm a like for African man you're African right we're all understandable well I mean yeah it's G African but yeah it just seems like y'all be such a beautiful pair for sure okay all right I appreciate that let's head on back then okay let me bring you on up here with us come on up here with us let me have you scoot that way I have you stand over here all right y'all any final question between the two of you before we determine if this is a match yes how do you feel about celibacy I'm guessing you're saying Cel celibacy towards marriage or correct okay I mean I'm a Christian man so I respect that and that's that's not a deal breaker for me because I have uh built up a emotional intelligence and you know my just yeah I don't have any you know yeah I don't I don't have anything against that have you ever practiced celibacy while while in a relationship yes I have okay and was it successful I mean sometimes it's not I mean God gives Grace yeah so so you're saying have I practiced celibacy in a relationship and was it successful yes were you successful in the celibacy yes I was okay okay why jender popping I think it was the hesitation at the beginning about the celibacy and then when you were explaining like your day-to-day like walk with the Lord um I think prayer is one aspect um but I'm also looking for someone who like incorporates like reading their Bible into that as well because I think it can be hard to hear from God like yes we're praying but it can be hard to hear from God if we're not also reading his word and that wasn't something that you mentioned so I think it's the combination of the two okay I respect that I mean I do read my Bible you know it's just in the unconventional setting that we're in right now it slipped my mind I'm not going to remember every little thing every little detail you know what I'm saying but if you would have asked me that I would have I would have you know gracefully just answered and tell you yes I do read my Bible at some point during the day okay yes all right well I'll have you head on back okay Shad well that is all the balloons popped unfortunately but we do thank you so much for coming let's give it up for him ladies I'll take this thank you thank you [Applause] ladies all right let's bring out our next single guy hello welcome in what's your name my name b b go by yeah okay how old are you I'm 33 and what do you you do um I'm an entrepreneur vending machines got a podcast I do music and then I um I franchise a dessert company and two malls nice all right what do you like to do for fun basketball like the hoop so it's pretty much I mean Poker I'm a homebody okay I gotta go out the network but I like to be home watch a good series or something okay what okay chess chess now what do you look for in a woman um Beauty I'm one of the people like they say looks don't matter but it mattered to me but also being smart loyal because I'm sapio so smart is real big we can have intellectual conversations um yeah that's that's pretty much like from the base level okay understandable now what are some deal breakers uh I don't smoke or drink so like cigarette smoke cigarette smoke if you smoke cigarettes and then um multiple baby daddies okay you said you don't you don't smoke or drink I don't smoke or drink I have kids and I have no kids no all right so we haven't got any pop balloons let me hand you a pck oh the hard part yes I'm going to have you pop two balloons two two of them whenever you're ready go ahead and pop those two all right let's go it's going be T all right how you supposed to do this there we go and one more oh it's going to be okay let's start with the first one you ended up popping all right if we can have your name and age hi I'm Carmella and I'm 31 all right and Carmel why did you have your balloon unpopped um just listening trying to get more information to learn about him okay okay so is he someone physically your child yeah okay I was a little hesitant but I'll let you slide all right so why end up popping her balloon honestly I thought she was older than 31 thought she was older so I was looking I was like she probably be a little older so I popped it okay interesting oops we got one more pop over here your name and age Ayana 27 okay and Ayana why did you have your balloon unpopped um I wanted to hear him out he also mention a word that a lot of people don't understand what it means which is saposexual so I like people that actually are very intellectual and like to have deep dived conversations okay so why'd you end up popping her balloon I be real I don't even have a direct answer I just I went with how I was feeling I just about that went off just feeling okay but it wasn't like off of the just I went off the building okay I'll take that right okay so we've got five ladies left go ahead and ask them a question um all right so if I was um let's just say I'm in a barber shop and your ex come in there and he was talking about you or his time with you or describing you was some of the things I probably would have hear I would hear basic how would your ex describe you like if he was over yeah yeah okay name an age first and answer this question sure um my name is chalain I am 32 years old my ex would describe me as a very affectionate person um I also love like doing surprises so like if it's a birthday or like any special date in our life and our relationship I love to like plan things I'm a very neat and clean person and I'm lowy control freak so I like to know what's going on at all times so he'd probably mention that as well thank you your name and age and answer to this question uh hi my name is Lyn and I'm 28 oh the answer sorry um I would say my ex would describe me as very giving and very selfless so um I like to prioritize like the people I care about so when it comes to like friends or family if anyone needs me like I'm I'm very reliable um yeah I say I'm very yeah very reliable yeah name an age and answer this question my name is Waverly I'm 30 um my ex would just probably describe me as loving uh caring definitely a woman of God um super neat and yeah I think that's it that's good let's go over here your name and age and the answer to this question Mimi 28 um I would say my ex would describe me as very caring detail oriented I remember the small details he says and um also affectionate name an age and answer to this question my name is Nia I'm 32 and first of all we be in a barber shop together so he better not say nothing crazy um um I'm very patient nurturing um understanding but also I will ghost you in a heartbeat if my standards are not met so well then okay thank you let's head back this way so we did get a pop over here why' you end up popping your balloon um honestly I don't think that you're a badl looking guy but like the more I looked at him the I just wasn't attracted I'm sorry okay so what was it I don't know cuz his Height's good his face is okay I just feel like if he approached me when we were out I I wouldn't really be interested okay okay now is she someone that's your type I probably wouldn't approach her either okay she not woman or nothing but I probably would approach her either okay and what why not I mean just would make me say let me go talk to her like just looking at her would make me say I'm going to go approach her like nothing about her stick out to me and make me like oh I'm talk to her all right fair enough all right now we did get another pop down here all right why did we end up hopping our balloon um I was thinking about it you said in the beginning that you don't drink or smoke smoke I know that sounds childish but I do like to have fun I'm very professional but I also like to have fun and in my experience people that don't do that are very judgmental that's fine you can do what you want but I like to have fun so that's why I popped okay okay but is he someone that's your Type M he's very handsome okay same thing here she pretty she's pretty okay thank you got a pass I mean all right so we've got three balloons left go ahead and ask these ladies another question what's your love language what's your love language okay what is your love language um I would say I have a giving and receiving love language so the way I give love is acts of service but the way I receive love I would say is words of affirmations and quality time so um we can just be sitting in a room together and we we don't even have to be talking just as long as you're like physically there and we just share a space I enjoy that um as well as words of affirmations like telling me like compliment or just reassuring me if I had a long day at work and stuff like that so yeah okay and over here what's your love language My love language is gifts and I know that can sound like gold digger is but it's in the way that like when you're out and about and you see something it's like oh I think Waverly would really like that like it's the concept of you thinking about me while you're doing other things sounds good and we got a pop down here let's go ahead and see why Shan did a popping why'd you pop your balloon um the more I just kind of studied you I realized that you're not necessarily my type um you seem just a little bit too chill um I love chill people in general but it has to be like a balance for me so okay you want to be a little more what you want I'm to do um uh it's your posture um tone of voice the questions that you're asking so yeah got you okay all right now she's someone that's your type she cute cute baby I'm old you could be cute at any age I know I'm just messing thank you I appreciate it thank you and we got a pop back here why'd you end up popping your balloon as crazy as it sounds um I'm only 5'2 so I feel like you're a little too tall but all your answers are great I think you're very attractive um it's just it's just a height thing since I am so short okay um sometimes I feel like when I have a guy that's towering over me I just feel like aesthetically it kind of looks a little off yeah so yeah as crazy as it sounds just just a tiny bit shorter okay how tall are you 6'4 6'4 okay that's the first time and I'm 5'2 so yeah I think it's just just a tiny bit too tall okay understandable now is she someone that's your type she cute thank you everybody cute I mean yeah you know all right so guys any questions for each other I have can I do all my questions okay A L of um you mentioned you play poker do you play poker for money yes I play it for fun and for money sorry it's the gambling yeah okay now you said you're a woman of God gambling we know how that goes is okay all right so is she someone that's your she pretty thank you see he upgraded it was cute pretty a okay okay okay clocked it clocked it so prior of him saying that why was ballon unpopped um I definitely just wanted to be able to ask more questions um the I definitely wanted to start with what you already shared which was the poker thing and I probably would have if had it not been for money I probably would have asked more questions after that too so okay cool sounds good oh man all right well that is all the balloons popped but we do thank you so much for coming let's give it up for him [Applause] ladies okay let's bring out our next single guy hello welcome in what's your name James James James how old are you I'm 34 okay and what do you do I'm a recent law school graduate and I also do a little bit of commentary work uh legal and political all right nice so what do you like to do for fun I like to go on vacation I like to just hang out with friends and family um I like to do a lot of humanitarian work I do a lot of work with the homeless um a lot of work with ATR youth and I just like to watch like crime stories keep up with legal stories in the news all right lawyer almost though right almost okay congrats on graduating thank now what do you look for no woman I like someone who uh is very family oriented okay um someone who's going to put family above career I like someone who uh likes to go to church and values a relationship with God um I like someone okay uh I like someone who um maybe just is into the things that I like to do into like helping homeless people into at Rich youth someone who's naturally nice just a naturally kind person it's not forced um someone who's nice to the waitress but it's also nice to the CEO of the company okay all right that's a good one now what are some of your deal breakers um I don't like someone who uh is just unreliable um says one thing does another um someone who doesn't value your relationship with God uh someone who is just has no direction in life so that would be the top three all right so we did get some pop balloons it's G on over there see why they ended up popping your name and age hi my name is shalain I am 32 years old okay shalain why did you end up popping your balloon um you said that you want somebody that values a relationship with God and that like goes to church I'm not religious I don't go to church I grew up religious but I don't practice a religion right now and um yeah that just wouldn't align with like my life basically I love your jacket though fire so are you atheist honestly I'm halfway between atheist and agnostic I'm still trying to figure it out but I know for a fact like I'm just not Christian right now right and the thing is I've dated atheists before I'm in the past and really nice people you know but um I would say at this age where I actually am marriage-minded I'm someone that I want to Bear my children I would say I want equally yolked yes as well no I got you and I respect it so that's the only reason but I'm friends with atheist and you know I think they're good people everybody has some good in them all right now she someone that's your type uh very pretty very attractive very nice feet um that's actually something that's that I look at as well and um I think the haircut looks really good on her oh thank you so I mean very very attractive person for sure love the accent too where you from I'm from J oh okay cool yeah I've been here a while but the accent is still there you going nowhere no it's not I appreciate that I think you're pretty attractive as well call for anything than you so much perect thank you let's go on over here your name and age hi my name is Lyn and I'm 28 all right Lynn why did you end up popping your balloon so I like the way you addess I think you're attractive um and I love that you mention humanitarianism humanitarianism um because that's something I value as well it was just when you mentioned you want you're looking for a woman that at this point is valuing um starting a family or a family over a career right now I am only 28 so um at this point in my career I'm still like career focused and I'm kind of a family is kind of like the second thought so I just feel like as of now we're not aligned um because I am career focused and you're looking for someone who's kind of like wanting to kind of start that family so I just don't think um where I'm at right now we'd be align in that that's but that's literally just it all right all right I would say that um I didn't exactly mean someone who's ready to start a family today I just I just meant that um basically when we get married when you do get married you know you kind of put family above career oh for sure um but not right this instant you know but I understand you know the ideology and um I think she's attractive person as well thank um I like the way she's dressed and she has a nice smell thank you all right thank you let's going on over here your name and age and why did you end up popping your balloon aan and I'm 27 um originally it was because you were so soft spoken like you're so sweet I'm a native New Yorker and we're very loud so I want to make sure that you're very you know you feel equate you don't feel like I'm I am Alpha woman but you don't feel like overly powered by me I think it's amazing that you are getting your low degree that's what my parents wanted me to do wasn't happening cuz my um BS isn't uh criminal justice so that's beautiful um and I love the fact that you actually get back to the community because a lot of people don't invest that time especially in our black community so kudos to you um but yeah that was the main one I was going to touch on the fact that I am very career- driven but you highlighted what you meant by it so I'm not going to even Fe on that yeah what about for her I think that um I don't know as far as me being soft spoken you know I'm actually originally from Georgia Southern Georgia small town called Hinesville and um I now live out in Los Angeles so just kind of where where I was raised but can't help that but um as far as you know is she my type you know I do I think it's a very eclectic style um I do like the the boots and the combination and she all the girls have very nice teeth I haven't seen any bad teeth either yet so very nice teeth as well thank you and we did get a pop balloon over here your name and age and why you end up popping your balloon my name is Waverly and I'm 30 um and I pop my balloon I just want to start by saying the faith aspect I mean that is definitely what I'm looking for like someone that's a man of God serious about their faith wanting to serve the community but I after hearing your voice for a while this kind of like she mentioned the softs spokenness um just wasn't attractive to me okay want you to come out here I mean not not not tussling um but but yeah like that kind of just contributed to kind of the just the lack of Attraction initially yeah got it no she someone that's your type um you know I don't know as far as the self spokenness again you know I don't know it's kind of I don't know exactly what you mean by that you know it's as far as like you want someone to speak louder or speak deep voice be deeper or I don't even know how I would describe it I was almost CU it could be changed you know it can always it can always kind of change up no matter what so do you want to get your balloon back no no I want you to I be your authentic self like if that's just how you talk that's how you talk um I know like kind of like for some people there's certain sounds that can just be like nails on a chalkboard you know um and so not not that your voice is you say his voice is deal with no I'm I was just making the comparison okay I was making the comparison that for some people it's like that's just not something I necessarily want to hear all day you know and because I want to like get married like my ultimate goal is marriage like I want to hear yeah like his voice it be pleasant um so all right cool sounds good thank you all right your name and age and why'd you end up popping your balloon Mimi 28 um I love your style I love the sup and I also love your philanthropy I'm a therapist I work with people all day um it's really the religion um I am spiritual I have an intimate relationship with God but I don't believe in at this point organized religion I don't go to church and that's kind of just where I'm at right now so I feel like it wouldn't be a match cool beans are you atheist as I'm not an atheist I believe in God have an intimate relationship with him okay okay cool well well thank you I appreciate that um I think she's attractive person I do like the tattoo as well thank you nice nice feet as well uhoh you over here looking at all the feet my feet please your name and age and why did you end up popping your balloon my name is NI I'm 32 years old don't do that you said give it you're a very depper gentleman um very established um and I love that beautiful man um I just feel like there's I don't want to say the attraction everybody always says the attraction but you know when you feel it when you just want to be drawn to somebody and you can't help it um and also I'm not necessarily in church I'm not an atheist um I'm a bit more spiritual so I just don't want to hold you up there so okay well I want to just clarify I guess that um when I say a relationship with God I don't mean that I'm ult you know Ultra saved or that I even read the Bible every day or anything like that I just simply mean I go to church when I when I when I can I also um kind of watch sermons online um and I do have a relationship with God where I do pray um very often but I mean I curse I mean I do I still live a normal life if Will I mean I still do things but still have a relationship with and I just simp want someone that that as well but I didn't want to you know my friends or whatever to watch this and think like oh he's trying to make it seem like no I I still live a normal life I just simply want someone who has a relationship with God or is pursuing a relationship with God okay understandable good now she someone that's your type um yeah I mean I love I talk see can you zoom zoom in on the feet zoom in on the feet um no I think that no I think she she wears uh you know short hair very well as well you know I think a lot of women don't know that they don't wear short hair well sometimes um but I think she does she wears it very well and I like the outfit and um nice skin tone thank you yes let's head back so we do have an unpopped balloon over here let's have your name and age hi I'm Carmela and I'm 31 okay and Carmel why do you still have your balloon unpopped I'm just listening trying to get more I do like his faith in God um he seems like he got his stuff together so that's something that I'm looking for too nice so any questions you guys may have for one another uh where are you from um Liberia I was born and raised in Liberia I came here when I was nine to Phoenix no I'm I live in Atlanta but I'm saying I was born in Liberia okay so how long youve been living in Atlanta um like two years okay cool and um what are you looking for in a man um first of all I'm looking for a god of hearing I'm looking for a man who can lead um and I'm looking for a partnership somebody that we can work together as a team when was your last relationship two years two years ago from a guy in Atlanta um no it was long distance oh long distance yeah okay why did you guys break up um lack of communication and consistency you have children yes I do have one oh how old he's eight okay is that a problem um I'll hear your questions if you have any yeah it's a a child problem no it's not okay that's your only question for and um long distance where you say you I live in I currently live in Los Angeles okay so is long distance a problem for you uh no I used to live in Atlanta as well actually so I still have family down there and I go visit okay okay now she someone that you type um yeah I mean I don't do me too bad Hey whenever y'all say don't look I'm G to tell him to zoom in whenever you so um I I do like the outfit you know I think I like the hair as well I like the style of the hair um you know says she's into Faith um faith based as well and um she's a mother so kind of showing a nurturing skills and a caring ability um so you ask was a child a problem the child itself is not the problem but the age okay the age is the problem for me um I don't mind playing stepdaddy but it would have to be to someone I would say 10 12 or older and I say that because I feel like if I date someone with a young child and we break up and I have an attachment towards this young child um and then we're not talking we're mad at each other our our relationship is separated what happens to that relationship with that innocent child you know who probably has built an attachment towards me as well so someone that young I wouldn't want to be around unless we were like very serious okay thank you all right well that is all the balloons popped let's head on back then okay well like I said that's all the balloons popped we do thank you for coming on give it up for him ladies thank you I will um after the show if W really doesn't get a match I would like to give her my Instagram my phone number because um she is like perfect to me honestly like Perfection so if you don't get a match you know hit you up cuz I can always de deep in that [Laughter] voice I can't oh my God all right let's bring out our next single guy hello welcome in what's your name my name is Colin I'm uh 30 you a ask me my age I didn't but it's all right go ahead let us know your age my name is Colin I'm 33 and uh what do you do I'm a mechanical technician uh I work on Vapor compression Steels reverse osmosis basically we um we make pure water for pharmaceutical companies and they use that water in turn to make vaccines and medicines wow um to help people nice so what do you like to do for fun all for fun I like to uh work out I like to go jet skiing since I moved to Florida I've been really into salsa dancing but Chata dancing so I like to do those things stay active you know okay what do you look for in a woman uh what I look for in a woman is uh first you got to be a Godly woman uh also she has to uh just just be kind be nurturing nice uh honest okay and uh yeah not too much okay what are some of your uh what are some of your deal breakers my deal breakers are no cigarettes okay um other deal breakers I can't do atheist and also I can't do too much ratchetness uh uh I can do a little bit but not too much all that okay all right so we did get our pop balloon let go on over there I wonder why she pop all right your name age and why' you end up popping your balloon hi my name is shalain I am 32 years old hey shalain hi oh I popped because he said that you want a Godly woman and that's not me nah it's all good I understand maybe we can convert you later I I grew up Christian Pentecostal at that not for me it no all right to each own yes sir all right now before he said that you had your balloon unpopped why um he's not badl looking and I wanted to hear him out and you said you're from Florida correct and I'm also living in Florida so all right all right yeah where in Florida West Palm Beach West Palm oh I'm in Tampa but T it's Florida same state three hour drive not far but yeah okay sounds good now she someone that's you type honestly yeah I would approach her you know if I saw her out okay know like your skin like your style so okay A little Baldhead Ain no wrong it's different so okay thank you I appreciate that for sure let's go on over here you're name and age Ayan 27 okay Ayan why' you end up hopping your balloon so originally I was loving the context of the things that you were looking for um but when you said ratchet I know there's so many different like dilemas to what makes someone come off ratchet I'm from New York so yeah anything you probably say me talking my hands right now so you look at them could be considered ratchet I don't know I I'm using that as I'm using I might be being a little um exaggerated or exaggerated in the context of it but what I'm saying is what where anything could be considered ratchet you get what I'm saying so I'm saying me talking my hands it might be like okay she kind of get her why she using her hands and it's really not that's just how I speak or you know represent myself so um yeah I just think it's very you can put somebody in a box very easy easily by saying they're ratchet you know um and I'm not I just have moments where my friends we outside you know so we outside we outside we having fun we having a good time and just living our life to the best of our ability so okay so why' you have your balloon um po unpopped before he said that um well I like his Aesthetics when he came in um he he's Fitness I love Fitness you all know that um so yeah the things he was saying and then and then he said ratchet I'm like damn he GNA pop my balloon cuz he probably G to assume I'm ratchet so I just we just help you God so now she someone that's your type she's attractive yes but I probably wouldn't approach uh the hair and the eyes a little too much fun me but yes you know that's your style so that's right all right you you know let's head on back so we do have five balloons left on popped go ahead and ask these ladies a question okay my question is um what are your what are some good characteristics of a healthy relationship what are some good characteristics of a healthy relationship start here uh hi my name is Lyn I'm 28 hey Lyn um I would say some good characteristics of a healthy relationship is definitely open communication all right um and a willing to well a lack of ego let me say that a lack of ego um so like if we're in a disagreement and I'm open to hearing you out open to seeing your perspective like I have no problem saying that I'm sorry or I have no problem admitting that like I was wrong or I or I misjudged like I don't you can take accountability yes exactly like um and then as well as with the open communication again like hearing you out waiting to see what your P what your point of view and perspective was before I just jump to conclusions I like that all right name and age and answer to his question my name is Waverly I am 30 um you said the Hallmark of a good relationship well good characteristics you said of a healthy relationship right yes okay so healthy relationships I think definitely include honesty um transparency and when I say transparency it's it's it's not like I'm asking you the question like oh what did you do today or how was your day and you say good but it's like you expounding like that's the transparency um in emotional intelligence um being able to recognize within yourself when like you might be spiraling or like you're being triggered um and sometimes therapy like go in a couples's therapy like no one is bigger than yeah no one's better than going to therapy I think that's what I'm trying to say yeah okay cool all right name an age and N show question hi I'm Carmel and I'm a 31 and um I would say communication and consistency in a relationship um and also allowing your partner giving your partner Grace you know when they do mess up you know being open to talk about it and forgiving and when when I mean forgiving not bringing it back up like in a week or two weeks you know just truly just forgiving and moving forward I understand yeah all right name and agent answer to this question Mimi 28 I would say empathy honesty and consideration um being able to put yourself in the other person's shoes um also being transparent with how you're feeling um in consideration we are both two different people we both have two different experiences so being able to just identify with that and then communicate from there right right name and age and answer to this question hi I'm Nia I'm 32 and I would say honesty just blatant honesty um even if you think it would hurt my feelings um yeah I just think that would allow for a foundational relationship as long as you can be honest stuff I like that all right let's head on back okay so I'm going to now hand you a pick there you go and let's go ahead and pop two balloons two balloons two balloons okay and one more so much pressure when we got to that you know all right so why did you have your balloon unpopped for him um I was just listening and I feel like um we both have a lot of stuff in common okay got it so why did you end up popping herbin it's hard that question is difficult because you are a beautiful lady uh very attractive um I believe it's just because of the hair I'm not too much of a dreadlock fan but okay uh that's the only reason other than that you're very beautiful lady so thank you right thank you and then you ended up hopping one more back here so uh Lynn why was your balloon unpopped for him um I just want to hear hear you out more um also uh you said you're mechanical Tech correct I'm in engineering so I feel like our career is aligned so we'd probably be able to talk about work together um I also like accents and you have an accent so yeah but essentially I just want to kind of hear more about you had to say as well I understand I understand all right so why' you end up popping her balloon no real reason probably just not my type um once again you are a beautiful lady thank you um I can't say really you know I just had to pop I had to pop too I respect the engineering department as well cuz we have to work directly with Engineers so I definitely feel you on that okay thank you all right all right we've got three balloons left go ahead and ask these ladies a question all right uh let's see let's see tell me something that you're passionate about okay start here tell him something you're passionate about I am passionate about homemaking so I love curating an environment um that is welcoming and like hosting and cooking and baking um and just curating that environment for my family my friends my community so I really love doing that and making sure it's tidy that's a must okay okay let's go over here what are you passionate about um a couple things I would say therapy first I'm a therapist um just black people getting therapy um and then traveling I've been to over 30 countries I love to travel okay um and then lastly video games I love escapism I love just being a geek sometimes so all right that's on my alley right there I like traveling games okay over here what are you passionate about um I'm passionate about making people feel comfortable um I always find something that I can learn or um give a compliment to somebody so so that's my thing okay nice okay we got a pop balloon over here why'd you end up popping your balloon okay I I may have missed up I didn't let him finish his sentence but when you said what um she said was right up your alley what were were you also referring to the video games I was referring to traveling not the video games not the video games okay I'll take my balloon back so the video games you're about to just actually all good let me not take let me not take my balloon back a also after just what am I trying to say um just also after like just observing him for a while and just looking the physical attraction I don't think is there um I think mainly just the hairline yeah okay no she someone that's your type she's pretty I mean I like the skin complection um yeah she's all right okay thank you so we've got two ladies left go ahead and ask them another question okay um where do you see yourself uh let's say in two years from now do you see yourself with uh starting a family trying to have kids or Just where do you see yourself in in two years from now okay um so in two years I see myself um a lot lot more financially stable um I see myself traveling Europe um I'm a singer songwriter and just an overall creative um uh I don't want to you know say it may or may not happen but um I want to utilize my talents to start an organization for people that need help mainly young girls who need um a mentor or didn't have that motherly figure in their household so okay good nice GI okay and over here um I would say in two years I want to start my own thy practice I'm about to get licens in a couple months so trying to get that going I'm still traveling um two years with a family I would say maybe the next five years with the family I'm 28 so I definitely want to develop a strong relationship and marriage first before I have kids so definitely understand that ladies any questions for him do you have children no kids where do you live West Palm Beach Florida are you okay where do you live la oh right oh we we across the whole map that's all right though I have a problem with have you done long distance before yeah I have it's no problem for me you good I think so okay any questions here do you want kids yes I definitely want kids okay um what does fatherhood look like for you fatherhood that's a good question fatherhood for me looks like me being a good leader uh me being a guly man I'm of course going to follow the rules of the Bible um starting in Ephesians on what it looks like to to be a good husband a good father and um being a good leader providing and uh working with my wife you know to raise a family and have a you know a a good a good family basically you know M okay oh you got a question okay you said godly man I do have a relationship with God but I don't go to church I don't believe in organized religion at at this point um so are you opposed to that no I mean uh that's what it is right now now but I'm sure if we could you trying to convert me I'm not saying I'm trying to convert you but in relationships we both feed off each other so um it's a give and take thing so maybe the way I act towards God May influence you the way but I'm not going to be pulled away from God so I'm not saying convert you but I would definitely try to influence you to get closer to God with me as I try to I don't know about that I'm sorry yeah it's just really that um I feel like people can have their own individual relationship with religion and God um and yeah I don't know about the influence part I don't know about the influence part I respect that so prior to him saying that why' you have your unpopped I think he was handsome U I feel like we have similar interests you said you like to travel which is great um yeah just wanted to hear more all right and she someone that that's your type yeah of course she dresses nice um she got everything in order so okay of course that thank you all right are you good over here any question I do have a question so I'm a bit more into spirituality um like crystals things of that nature is that something that bothers you yeah okay I understand see your own as long as you're a healthy person and you're treating people well it doesn't matter what you follow so absolutely okay so why was your balloon unpopped before that um cuz you walked in you had confidence you smell great um and yeah you seem like a fun person so all right nice now she someone that's your type of course I love the skin complexion the height thank you uh I love that you're close to God and your in your way and yeah I love how you dress and of course I'd definitely approach you if I saw you out thank you I appreciate it all right well that is all of the balloons popped but we do thank you so much for coming on I'll take the mic let's give it up for him [Applause] ladies all right let's bring out our next single guy hello welcome in what's your name my name is jaw jaw how old are you 32 and what do you do so I do private security I have an agency I I do music and a little bit of modeling okay but mainly just media entertainment and then a couple other efforts right all right what do you like to do for fun I love food um I love going out for like a good drink okay um I'm really chill like I'll do some active extreme outdoor type stuff but that's really just depending on who's with me okay okay for the most part just kicking it chilling and what do you look for in a woman I like I'm big on communication okay I'm big on uh being able to have intellectual like discourse um and I'm I'm big on like being multifaceted I don't want anybody who's just one thing or just one like aspect you know what I mean okay what are some of your jailbreakers you know I really try to be open I don't I think if I can't have a strong communication with you or a strong conversation with you then that's that's bad if I feel like you don't really have have a good emotional awareness and that's bad too okay all right we haven't got any pop balloons so let me go ahead and hand you a pck have you hold on to that and go ahead and pop two balloons whenever you're ready okay and one more okay start over here all right you're your name and age and why did you end up having your balloon unpopped hi my name is Lenn I'm 28 and I just wanted to than I just wanted to hear more okay but see someone that's your type yes I think you're attractive yeah and I like the way you're dressed thank you I appreciate you I like them thank you all right so why' you end up hopping her balloon you know what honestly it's just like the type of like facial features that I'm looking for and if I have my choice I I do prefer taller oh well I did say no shorter yeah thank you and then you end up popping one more your name and age and why did you have your balloon unpopped hi I'm Carmela and I'm 31 and um I like the way he looks and I was just listening to get to know him more okay got it so why you up popping her balloon um again I think it's just the combination of like features that I'm looking for a specific type thank you thank you thank you okay we've got five ladies left go ahead and ask them a question all right I'm going to get right into it um how do you resolve conflict or how do you approach conflict in a relationship okay name an age first and answer to this question sure hi my name is chalain I am 32 years old um I think communication is very important when it comes on to resolving conflict just expressing maybe like what's bothering you what the issue is and then working through it together but communication is like at the core of resolving anything exactly yeah okay name an age and answer to this question my name is Waverly I'm 30 years old and like your name thank you um and I think in order to resolve a conflict it starts with listening so listening with the party that has the offense and then not taking offense to their offense just addressing their offense um taking accountability for whatever part you played in that offense and then taking steps to like not do that again and even maybe explaining yourself cuz maybe that wasn't your intention but that still offended that individual that's exactly right yeah name and age and answer just question Ayana 27 what wly said was perfect um I do believe that from what you stated earlier you don't seem really emotionally incompetent so you understand your emotions um I believe same with um Shay in the beginning she also stated that true be able to have the conversation so I do believe that you have to have a progressive um start and then know that you have an end goal at the end so even if it's not right away you guys are taking a time out to actually like decipher whatever the problems may be and then coming to a conclusion exactly right name an age and answer to his question Mimi 28 I will say um I do like to take some space first because I feel like in the initial you're in your emotional mind as as you know that yeah over some time you know kind of thinking and processing your emotions you can kind of get into that rational mindset and come come back and communicate more clearly so it does take some time for me to come back to a conflict okay name and age and answer to this question hi my name is Nia I'm 32 and the way that I approach conflict is um to pick you back off what Mimi said I just take a moment analyze myself um try to see if I did something wrong if I said something wrong um and then I'll approach you U make sure that my body language is calm my a voice is calm and um just have a direct conversation with you okay I like that all right I was looking for back I know it's good luck picking now so I'm going to have you pop two balloons whenever you're ready go ahead and pop those two damn I know I know it's tough damn you got to pop all right okay can I ask a question you sure no you got to pop you got to pop all right okay I hate just going off the aesthetic of it but um I'm have to put the answer okay and then one more okay this is crazy this is such a nice like y'all look so good um oh I like your nails though okay let's start over here so wa why did you have your balloon unpopped um I definitely just wanted to wait for opportunity to just ask more questions oh for sure but to see someone that's your type uh initially yeah okay yeah okay what about now uh yeah you said initially so what about now initially um yeah just kind of piece I would have to pece meil just some of the answers that for my questions so so you have to hear more to know if he's for sure your type okay okay okay now why'd you end up hopping her balloon honestly like I said I like her answer and really let me go there I like your aura too but um I it's um specific features that I'm into like certain preferences you know what I'm saying um and that's just I can't go any further than that I ain't really have anything else to dig off of okay so sounds good thank you and you end up popping one more so why' you have your balloon unpopped for him I think he's handsome I like the question that you asked thank you I appreciate you yeah got it so why' you end up popping her balloon don't say that feature thing again we want a real respon I'm I'm I'm I'mma tell you something okay and they going they G I'm gonna get dragged for this but yes uh viral moment if I had to just go off of looks I like chocolate I got to be real I got to be honest perfectly fine yeah so problem thank you but I respect how you was coming though all right we've got three ladies left go ahead and ask them another question um okay right now what is personal growth look like for you and then um if you're on a personal growth Journey what how would you see your partner supporting that okay personal growth you said what does personal growth look like yeah like what like you know what are you working on right now okay okay cool start over here so um personal growth has looked like for me um realizing that I was a people pleaser um unintentionally um realizing that I wasn't being appreciated so I had to take a step back honor myself honor my standards and people that didn't respect that I had to let them go so I resonate with that that was perfect okay and um the second part was how does your partner help yeah how would you see a partner support um just respecting my boundaries um and respecting my standards I would say yeah that's stuff okay okay here from you over here okay as I stated earlier more so giving myself Grace um okay and sometimes I have to take a step back to realize like analyze what the situations may be um and why I may be failing or not at the point that I want to be in also um I wouldn't I would probably say accountability like holding myself accountable and being able to coach myself and take the critiquing properly um and those are probably like my main two components that I'm working on personally feel um as far as my partner I feel like my partner would just have to be the person that is there helping me with the grace like okay you messed up here see it in this aspect um you get another chance whatever it may be um so just yeah and more so like Words of Affirmation like kind of building me up and fulfilling me in the areas that I may be lagging at that's something I'm working on yeah so that's I feel that thank you and our last Lady over here um so I would say that the two biggest things that I've been working on for myself is one I can be very defensive okay um my sister who's my best friend pointed that out to me and I as you know no I'm well aware of it and I've been trying to be a lot better about it and then the second thing for me is um they said that comparison is the th of Joy yes it is and I'm with social media and just everything like course it's so bad like I compare myself to people so much whether it's like my physical attributes or where I am in my career what I'm doing with my life um I compare myself a lot and I'm just trying to like be better about that because everybody's journey is different I'm trying to appreciate my life for like what it is um how my partner would help with that words of affirmation you know having someone who builds you of like I'm not depending on that person to because you have to have that self-confidence within yourself but having someone who adds to that would be great okay okay all right so let's throw the question back at you oh originally I am from Jamaica but currently I live in Florida all right okay all right so Jo we're gonna throw the question back at you because I know the ladies want to know as well yeah um right now I find in a lot of my personal relationships that I have a lot of misinterpreted actions or intentions so I'm trying to be better and more effective at communication okay um trying to be more honest with myself and the people that I like genuinely care about and um right now just being more focused on myself like being a man nowadays you can really expend your resources trying to keep up with whatever you see online or whatever the next man is doing or whatever your partner at the time may expect from you but really just staying on your own personal Journey okay really important all right it's time to pop a balloon I know go ahead and pop one balloon to all right I'm sorry okay all right so why' you have your balloon unpopped for jaw um I wanted to hear more about him um he seems like compared to our other ones he was you know on the um on the way to right the right way I take that far as what I was hearing so very intellectual person seems like he's really good with conversations and I'm I see myself as a conversationalist so um that was the main factor for me cool so why'd you end up hopping her balloon cuz we splitting hairs here that's really all it is and um I think it's I don't really have a really definitive reason I I really don't I like no no I'm what makes you think I'm lying I'm okay I'm about to say I'm not lying I just I had to pick one if I could sit here and ask the three of y'all more questions it would be like that but I just don't have that time that's so okay thank you let's head on back all right go ahead and ask these two remaining ladies your last question two big things that are important for me um are like being able to keep like a clean space and being able to like take care of yourself in a household set and a lot of people they get to a really big age and they don't know how to take care of their house they don't know how to cook they don't know how to clean they don't know how to exercise they don't know how to eat right okay and like so I'm just making sure that at this age you have like good self-regulation so um what are your biggest what are your your best traits in a relationship that you would say what do you bring to like if y'all are living together what are the best things that you bring to to that situation Rel okay I love this question um I'm a minim minimalist so like if you go to my apartment right now you'd think it's like an Airbnb the way everything has a space everything's I'm not exaggerating I'm a clean freak I will say that one of my downfalls is that I don't really cook crazy yeah so I kind of like low maintenance meals so like the eggs the salmon salads the fruits just on rotation things that are not like super hard to cook I not the best cook I hate cooking it hates me whatever it hates me back so we're even that's wow okay but I'm a very clean person I take pride in my appearance um and I it is important too exactly you know the way you present yourself to the world and I'm not against learning to cook I will cook with my partner I just need my partner to know coming in like I'm not the best cook all right but everything else I got it long as long as I know that long as okay yeah cleaniness is very important to me though so I love that you asked that very important it is very important go on down here all right let's hear from you over here um so I love to keep a clean space as well I like spaces that smell good it feels good that says a lot about how you feel about yourself um what else um I like balance I don't like too much going on in my place um I don't like un invited guests I'm not saying you no no no I get you like if we ain't tell you to come over what you here for yeah like I love you but like get out yeah what you got in the fridge nothing okay nothing no I pay for this get out exactly so um but I'm all about balance as well I don't want to be carrying the burden of a lot of the chores um say that's why I ask yeah say if you cook I'm washing the dishes or VI Versa I'm washing the clothes or you're vacuuming it's it's all about a balance Bal okay what can can you cook yeah I would say if you put me against your grandma with the big arms no no no no no no I'm putting you against me I'm a seven and a half no I'm putting you against me oh okay yeah what's your favorite thing to cook you know what honestly Italian is very easy but I like a lot of Asian dishes as well and then you can't never go wrong with some good soul food if it's your Staples exactly and then you incorporate like different ingredients exactly I always like to make something new every time just to have fun with like I have fun cooking so okay oh oh Jesus back let's head on back why are we popping why that was crazy by the way was it I'm sorry I do find you very attractive I like everything that you're asking um I I self eliminated because the whole cooking thing she's down there like she I'm sorry I'm just I can't cook and I feel like you would have picked I'm down with the ability to learn you were down to learn why do you eliminate yourself I get my balloon back do you want me to get it back I can't tell you that you got to be or it's got to be authentic so can I get my balloon Mar okay let's get a balloon back just crazy I'll let you make the choice she crashed out didn't she I'm like I can't most guys want somebody who can cook like really well no I just don't want us to be in a relationship where you down the line I'm still doing all of the cooking and if you're doing the cooking it's no Abol the same she was doing when we first got no I Believe In Balance I believe in growth learning new things learning new recipes together it's cool I don't expect nobody to be perfect okay okay all right so ladies any questions for draw okay go ahead I have two actually um part one how do you feel about religion and I asked because I'm not religious and in part two how do you feel about kids I ask because I want to be married but I don't want children M okay I'mma get to the most pertinent question first I do want children I am big on I no I knew that was going to be thing no I definitely I definitely one of the biggest things uh in my life that I look forward to and that I build for is my family my my legacy my my home so I understand have that much like I love children I have like three God kids a niece I love them but having my own that maternal Instinct it's it's not there for me I feel it but I do want to be married I feel it no for sure of course yeah okay sorry no I'm glad you was honest you don't have to apologize for anything thank you let's head down over there all right any questions over here yes so sometimes I can be very introverted um which would include space from my partner okay um is that something that you can understand or you know what in my life now like I was saying finding the the like the journey to be more not self-reliant but just keeping all of my resources and my time and myself like that's where I'm at right now trying to make sure I focus on myself when before it was the opposite I can see the ability to have like room for somebody else when at first it would be like you know what you doing where you at not possessively but just because I'm always interested in what you're doing and I if I'm with you I want to hang out with you all the time but I can understand a need for space and a necessity for it and respect it now so that's school okay uh how many kids do you want three would be ideal two is cool okay at least one Jesus if we sitting there negotiating you don't have a preference on gender or no not at all I mean it would be nice but I'm not going to sit here and try to okay ascertain what I'm going to are you fat phobic no did you say fat phobic it depends what what do you mean cuz sometimes I I've never had children I've never been pregnant oh I don't know how my body's going to look and that's natural process stay that way yeah no no no no but you can't be like my girl nasty now no no I imag okay if this is the way that y'all look now this is what y'all are comfortable looking like I would imagine if if it changed you would have some desire to at least still remain yourself after that type of change so I'm I don't have no problem she someone that's your type yeah you sure why would I not be them eyebrows kind of that's crazy stop it okay come on let me bring you on up here y'all come on all right so you guys got a lot of questions out the way do if you had a final one just one you can ask it if you don't don't worry about it what are three things that you look for in a woman um honestly I want to make sure that you have love languages that I'm AB that I have the ability to see through too um like I said honesty is Big because even if it's something I don't want to hear I need you to tell me cuz I'm I'm kind of gullible I really don't get the hint I'mma need you to like lay it out and be you know honest about it perfect and then three I feel like I need somebody who is able to see growth in themselves and be able to see them because you're not always going to be the person you are now you might change and understanding that and being accepted to that is crucial okay all right I got my final question then y'all is it a yes for you for him yes a yes and is it a yes for you for her yes we got a match I'll take the mic and you guys can go on Up Make some noise for them y'all you guys can go on [Laughter] up all right let's go ahead and bring out our next single guy hello welcome in what's your name Devin Devon how old are you I'm 28 and what do you do uh so I'm a insurance claims adjuster for a well-known company I make music I do I got a couple side hustles that's the main stuff I do okay okay what do you like to do for fun I play chess a lot I play basketball I work out I hike I read um chill with friends stuff like that what do you look for in a woman uh family oriented God-fearing um patient understanding yeah okay now what are some of your deal breakers um not spiritual uh impatient okay um not family oriented all right so we did get a pop balloon let's go on over there see why she ended up popping all right let's have your name and age hi my name is chelene I am 32 years old and um honestly I just no physical attraction whatever whatsoever understandable I'm sorry you good you good what is it um um normally I don't go for guys with like hair longer hair granted we both can't be baled I mean you can but um but yeah like if I saw you out I I guess it it's just not there for me we can't all be everybody's type so no offense me okay thank you that's it okay now is she someone that's your type uh she's beautiful for sure but not really okay and why not um I prefer ah man I don't know how to describe it it's just you know you beautiful like I said but like uh no I You Beautiful with the haircut my mom cut her ha too she got little shortcuts on on mind that but um just um I don't know it's just it's just I'm not like it's nothing like I said you beautiful but just like it's the same thing you said exactly I was trying to be unique and say something different but it's like when I see you I'm not thinking like damn I want to I want to get I want to marry I want to get to know you know what I'm saying I'm just like you're beautiful that's what you you know thank you my bad sense you're good you're good Okay so we've got five ladies left go ahead and ask them a question um anybody got kids okay we have one over here all right your name and age hi I'm Carmela and I'm 31 and Carell said you have kids yeah I just have one he's eight okay okay no wrong with that so kids are not a dealbreaker for you no not unless we got like a whole basketball team you know all right do you have any kids I don't have any kids do not okay okay all right we'll be back let's head on back all right go ahead and ask them a question guess some talking a little bit as far as priorities go what are the top three things that y'all prioritize when it comes to just everyday life what are your top three priorities okay what are your top three priorities but first your name and age hi my name is Lynn I'm 28 I would say my top three priorities as of now number one is definitely my career number two is my family and then number two I would say money but not I'm not money focused but just in terms of you know generational wealth and then my goal is Financial Freedom at the you know at the end of retirement um but yeah I would just say that okay over here name and age and answer to this question my name is Waverly I'm 30 years old and my top three priorities is one spending time with God so both prayer and reading scripture um on a regular daily basis um then it's like kind of keeping up a tidy home um I can be kind of messy when I'm getting ready so it's like bringing everything back together um and then third right now I'm trying to Pivot my career a little bit I work in nonprofit so just trying to go back corporate that's good cool thank you let's go on over here your name and age and the answer to question Ayana 27 um the first thing I would definitely say is moving with purpose and praising my god um secondly definitely health and wellness um and third what be my family name and age and answer to this question Carmela 31 um I would say my religion ship with god um family and friends and just Health overall just maintaining because I feel like the body is the temple so we got to maintain it good and your name and age and the answer this question Mimi 28 I would say um probably my career first I'm a therapist I love my clients I love working with folks that need mental health um Mental Health Services and then I would say self-care for myself and then lastly um probably family and FRS okay okay all righty let's go ahead and hand you a pick have you hold on to that and I'm going to have you pop two balloons all right pop those okay and one more okay let's start over here all right so why did you have your balloon unpopped for him um I wanted to hear him out I think he's handsome um yeah okay so why do you end up hopping heral in just that that I'm sorry that number one option I'm looking for like spirituality like I feel like everything else not going to really work if you're not prioritizing your spiritual relationship with your creator or whatever you believe in as that first top priority okay cool thank you and then you ended up hopping one more so why' you have your balloon unpopped um I just want to hear uh hear you out a little more but I also like your Vibe so than you I appreciate why' you end up hopping hers same thing just that first answer for sure yeah thank you all right we've got three ladies left ask them another question um all right what do you do for a living what do you do for a living and uh all right what do you what do you what do you do for a living and um what's your pass what's your main passion outside of your career okay cool all right what do you do for living and what's your main passion outside of your career I'm a digital marketing manager and a college professor and consultant um my passion is homemaking so I love like creating an environment um for my friends and family and community that makes them feel warm and welcome so like cooking baking like keeping the home tidy um and serving my community in that way definitely okay and over here so for me um well my position I'm a personal trainer um I enjoy Fitness that's like my top tier um but what I will say other than that is more so like styling people I used to reorganize closets and personally shop um so I'm into things of that nature and over here I'm Carmela I'm 31 um what was that again I'm sorry uh what do you do and what is your passion outside of what you do I'm a flight attendent and um my passion is just people I just I like being around people talking to them helping them in any any way especially with my career um I meet different people on the plane and you don't know why somebody's on the um aircraft for so it's just just have a conversation and just making somebody day so okay all righty time to pop a balloon just one yeah whenever you're ready all right so Cara why did you have your balloon unpopped um I was just listening he's very attractive and he's the only one who didn't care to I have a kid so okay no wrong with having kids I so why' you end up popping her balloon uh I already know who I you know who I'm interested in so I'm just process of elimination yeah but like I said the whole line of beautiful y'all did a good job with selecting everybody okay well I feel like since you said that why don't you just go ahead and pop just go ahead and pop okay so why did you have your balloon unpopped for him um I wanted to hear him out honestly the age was kind of throwing me off because I I believe that men take a longer you know um they have a bigger Gap period compared to our development than that we got them by like two years so he's really like 25 in my head just joking I'm just messing with you but your dreads are beautiful you seem like a beautiful spiritual person um so of course I just want to hear more thank you I appreciate you let's head on back to who he already has eyes on so miss Waverly any questions for him yes okay um do you participate in any recreational drug use I smoke weed that's understandable understand it's okay yes okay so prior to him saying that why was your balloon unpopped cuz I wanted to ask my questions but is he your type no not initially he wasn't my type like physically like imagery wise but like getting into the questions hearing more like had we aligned in that way like I would be open okay okay so I know you said she was your type what makes her your type everything she got going for herself also how she look you knowk she got the full package for show off of what I know okay thank you man all right well that is all the balloons popped unfortunately but we do thank you for coming ladies let's give it up for him thank you all right let's go ahead and bring out our next single guy hello welcome what's your name uh my name tion what is that tion tion yeah t oh okay okay and how old are you I'm uh 27 okay what do you do I work for a private company out in Michigan I work with First Responders EMS responders okay nice what do you like to do for fun um I don't consider myself a gym rap but I do keep myself in shape if I'm not uh in a gym I'm either learning about something Automotive or uh I like photography too ain't no professional at all okay so you work on cars yeah oh okay good now what do you look for in a woman that's a large question um other than a support system I mean like really just a partner you know somebody that I can compromise with you know go through the the scheme of life with you know what I mean ups and downs that type of stuff okay what are your deal breakers deal breakers indecisiveness not knowing what you want in life you know what I mean like just being I don't want to say directional because you rarely meet a woman that don't know where she going days but like basic indecisiveness and stuff like that stank attitude if I can't bring you home to my mama then like you know what we doing problem all right so we haven't got any pop balloons so let me hand you a pig all right cool I'll have you hold on to that and I'm going to have you pop two balloons two balloons two balloons whenever you're ready all right now I'm looking at the feet okay how many you say uh one more just one more all I got you okay let's start here name and age hi my name is Lenn and I'm 28 um I just wanted to hear you out more okay but is he physically your type yeah for sure yeah okay so why'd you end up hopping her balloon I didn't want to rely too much on physical Beauty we got a bunch of beautiful women here I can't see your feet I can see everybody else feet I'm just trying to make it easy for myself I'm just trying to make it easy for myself okay okay understandable let's go over here your name and age and why' you have your balloon unpopped Ayana and I'm 27 um like we' all been saying we wanted to more so hear you out U the initial attraction wasn't really there originally but you are a handsome man um and you're 27 yes you're my age which is okay but it's not it's not something I would yearn for honestly um that's it I I know why well I feel like I know why it's a toes but that's mad funny wearing boots that's probably why is that why you end up popping yeah you know it's just it's a simple process are those are those your uh Real Eyes by the way no um either way I a want to look too much your face I'm trying to see what's going on that's fair okay just because she was covering the toes never know I TR thank you thank you okay so we've got four ladies left go ahead and ask them a question uh across the board besides being a uh the male archetype of what you want in a man what is one thing that you absolutely need in a man to be with you okay would you absolutely need in a man to be with you name and age hi my name is shalain I am 32 years old um and I think for me I need someone who's jovial I've dated guys who are like super serious before and I just I can't deal with that I need you to be able to like make fun of yourself we can laugh together cuz when you're too serious I just it just kind of makes me feel like I don't know it just does not work for me so I just need someone who's yeah just someone who's jovial right we could brush each other here oh I ain't got no ways but hey hey I can I can put them in there you know I got something to give that's what's going on thank you let's go over here name and age and answer to this question my name is Waverly and I'm 30 years old um can you define your definition of the archetype of a man like how would you define that that's actually a great question Wy and I feel like in today's society is more of a a money grab especially in our society you know what I mean like who's always going to be at the top producing the most who going to be the Brad winner obviously professions lead to you know I don't want to say a discourse but like other than somebody being able to financially present themselves is I guess what I would say like uh because I work on cars I'm I'm a man of all mans you know I love using my hands but like other than the physical rough type of man what else I'm asking like what do you else what else do you need but as far as my definition I would say being a bread winner okay so after bread winner I think it would definitely be someone that is a protector like someone that you know when we're walking the street you're pushing me to the appropriate side yeah appropriate side like it's it's the little things it's like you sitting where you can see the door like someone that keeps that kind of thing in mind so I can just through the day I can dig it yeah that's good all right name an age and answer to this question hi I'm Carmela and I'm 31 and I would say leadership um because if you don't know where you're going how can you lead us as a family or or has a unit um because I like to be submissive to my man so I got make sure you can leave correctly I do name an agent answer this question U Mimi 28 I would say intentionality somebody who um recognizes their purpose or is seeking their purpose um somebody that can keep their word intentional with their word um and I think that kind of wraps up with honesty and stuff too um so just intentionality okay sounds good all right it is time to pop a whenever you're ready just this the hardest part I mean like honestly I love the word intentionality that's my biggest thing because if you're not open with what you're doing you know what I mean like it's just let's just see where this goes and it's like no as a man as a as a person that know what I want you know what I'm saying I know what I'm I know where I'm going I don't got to ask you that I don't got to reaffirm you that you know what I'm saying but I love intentionalities um I got a pop of balloon you do that's tough come on man I'mma look at feet again oh my I don't got a fetish I'm just no I was just going to say I don't got a fetish I I ain't even into thatal protor okay so why' you end up popping your balloon you're using feet as a criteria to pick one of us and I just I know you have like a limited limited amount of time and information but we all gave you like answers to a question you asked and you're still using feet I just screams fetish my guy like I can no and you know what I can understand that but the thing is my male brain is always going to look at y'all face and I'm just I'm trying to avoid that you know I'm trying to avoid that I can I can respect that decision I can dig it yeah I just would rather someone use something else to pick one of us you said your name was shalain with a c no with an S oh okay cool never mind yeah okay so now is shelene someone that's your type definitely definitely definitely yes definitely waves I got to get you there oh my God anyway okay we've got three ladies left go ahead and ask them another question I feel like illiteracy is one of the growing problems in America people are absolutely not reading as far as like when and if we have children you know what I mean I don't really rely on the public school system to you know properly educate our children is there anything wrong with y'all with having uh homeschooled children okay homeschooling how you feel about that actually want homeschool okay good all right let's go over here homeschooling yeah there's no problem with that I do have a child and yeah it's no problem okay I can dig it is he home schooled now no but I'm saying if we get together it's you know it's no problem okay okay cool and over here I would say no um parents should have the authority over their children so if homeschool is that then yeah all right okay okay let's go ahead and pop one balloon whenever you're ready don't be looking at their feet either listen to what they told you not I'm not I'm not I'm not okay let's stay over here okay all right so why was your balloon unpopped for him I think he's handsome um I would say the age is probably the only thing cuz he's younger than me but that was it yeah got it so why' you end up hopping her balloon I honestly had no good reason I'm I'm they all agreed to my answer to take a little bit more time to go in depth okay sounds good oky doie ladies any questions for him you have one okay let's start here so how do you feel about me having a son he's eight honestly and um because I come from a household where another man had to step up and actually be my father I find that admirable I have no problem with that you know what I mean I didn't seen my daddy take care of my mama for 24 years now you know what I'm saying so I know it's just communication but at the same time I know my daddy my biological father at least was on some bullsh whenever I was around him you know what I'm saying so like in a condition with me if I'm existing in your life that other dude ain't yeah he's not he's not involved in my son's life so I'm African so um my family is the one that's stepping up helping so yeah you want a question you good yes okay any questions here yes um so Faith wise is there anything you stand on believe in and if so what does your day-to-day look like in following s faith I don't want to say that I'm not religious it's actually been a minute since I practice anything religious but I'm just spiritual I respect that okay so if you want to go and tell him why you ended up popping I pop because like my faith as far as being a believer in the Bible and God like holy spirit Yeshua all that is like what I stand on every day yeah now she someone that's your type she is oh me and me and JC we like this I I talk to Jesus Christ every day I believe Jesus is in me and just is in everybody you know what I'm saying that's why I say I'm more spiritual I'm not so much as religious you know but do you read your Bible like on a daily basis I do not read my Bible on a daily basis I do okay yeah Co thank you let's head on over here all right so any questions between the two of you are you okay with going to church I mean I don't go to church every Sunday but you know let's say for New Year and I'm like like oh babe let's Brink in you know would you be okay definitely definitely okay is she someone that's your type definitely M okay well let me bring you on up here girl come on up y'all come on up all right y'all so okay any final question if you don't have one that's all right all right one more um where do you stay I stay in Phoenix okay I'm in Atlanta are you okay with long distance more than okay okay more than okay all right well then let me ask my final question is it a yes for you for him yes and is it a yes for you for her so no a no oh okay why is it a no I'm 27 right now I know I wouldn't be able to be the man that you need I got too much stuff that I'm set in stone I don't want to ruin I don't want even want to say ruin your life I don't want to bring my drama and my craziness into your life I respect you a little bit too much okay thank you all right I'll have your head on back all right well let's all the balloons popped but we do thank you for coming on give it up for him ladies take the mic thank you that's czy thank you everyone for tuning in this episode of pop the balloon or fine love if you'd like to be featured in any of our upcoming episodes make sure you go ahead and click on that link in the description box below and fill out a form to be considered also don't forget to like comment and subscribe and we'll catch you all next time [Applause] [Music] ...
