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4 Ways God Confirms a Relationship is His Will, Not Your Desire | Dr. Myles Munroe Motivation Discover the profound insights of ...
ladies and gentlemen when you step into the Journey of seeking meaningful relationships one of the greatest questions you may find yourself wrestling with is whether the desire for someone in your life comes from God or simply from your own human emotions it's a question that requires deep reflection prayer and above all Divine discernment for many of us the Longing For Love companionship and connection is a fundamental part of our existence but it is essential that we approach this longing with wisdom recognizing that true love is not based on fleeting feelings or desires but on a deeper connection with the divine plan God has for us the reality is this God is always working in our lives with a purpose and his relationships are not random they are not meant to satisfy just our immediate want but to align with the greater Destiny he has planned for us so how can we know for sure that the person we desire is truly part of God's Divine will for our lives how can we be certain that we're not just chasing a fleeting emotion but a Divine connection there are ways that God confirms his will and they serve as markers to help guide our journey the first key sign that a relationship is truly from God is the peace that surpasses all understanding when a relationship is divinely orchestrated it doesn't stir up anxiety confusion or doubt instead it brings a deep sense of peace in your spirit you may not have all the answers but there is a calm assurance that God is in control and guiding the process it's a peace that comes from knowing you are in alignment with his purpose even when external circumstances don't always make sense the peace of God is one of the most powerful confirmations you will ever experience in any area of your life but especially in relationships if the relationship you desire brings unrest confusion or disorder then it's a strong indication that you may not be aligning with God's [Music] will secondly Divine relationships always align with your purpose God will never send someone into your life who will pull you away from your purpose rather he will send people to encourage and help you walk deeper into the Fulfillment of your Divine Destiny true relationships reflect the harmony between your life's calling and the person you're with if the person you desire helps to strengthen your faith encourages you to pursue your purpose and brings you closer to your god-given calling than you are on the right path the relationships from God never derail you they uplift they sharpen and they draw you closer to fulfilling the plan he has for you now there's another unmistakable Mark of a Divine relationship the Fruit of the Spirit Galatians 5:22 tells us that the fruit of the spirit is love joy peace patience kindness goodness faithfulness gentleness and selfcontrol these qualities should naturally flow from the relationship not just for one person but for both when a relationship is rooted in God's will it reflects the character of Christ if the relationship brings out the best in you if it encourages growth not just spiritually but in your character and integrity then you know it's a relationship that has been birthed from God's will not from Mere human desires the fourth sign is the undeniable presence of God's perfect timing Divine relationships unfold according to God's timing not ours we live in a world that is often driven by impatience and rush but God's timing is always perfect when we wait on him we see his will wisdom unfold the right person enters our life at the right moment and the circumstances surrounding the relationship fall into place in ways we could never orchestrate on our own trusting in God's timing means surrendering our own expectations and resting in his sovereignty when you find yourself in a relationship at the perfect moment in God's perfect timing you'll know it was meant to [Music] be in the Journey of discerning whether a relationship is from God we must also remember that God speaks clearly through his word through the wisdom of Godly counsel and through the Deep peace of the Holy Spirit he will never lead us astray and his plan for us will always be filled with purpose peace and a reflection of his love so as you reflect on the relationships in your life ask yourself does this relationship bring peace does it align with my god-given purpose does it be the fruit of the spirit and am I willing to wait for God's perfect timing if the answer to these questions is yes then you can rest assured that the desire for someone in your life is not simply your own it's part of God's Divine [Music] will trust in his plan and know that he will lead you into relationships that are far greater than anything you could ever ask or imagine when we talk about relationships there's a deeper truth that often gets overlooked the foundation of all relationships is rooted in God's purpose not our personal Desires in this world where emotions can be loud and desires often dictate our choices it can be easy to confuse what we want with what God has ordained yet if we are to truly walk in alignment with God's will we must first understand that relationships are not just about satisfying personal longing but about fulfilling a Divine Purpose that God has designed specifically for us you see relationships are more than just connections between individuals they are opportunities for God to work his purpose through us whether it's a friendship a family bond or a romantic relationship God's intention is always to use those connections to fulfill his larger plan for our lives but the problem comes when we allow our personal desire to overshadow God's plan our flesh may desire companionship affection or even the validation of others but the true question is does this relationship draw me closer to [Music] God does it serve the purpose he has placed in my [Music] life God's purpose for relationships is not temporary it is eternal it's not about how someone makes us feel in the moment but about how that Rel relationship shapes us into the people we were created to be his plan for relationships is not just for our benefit but for his glory think about the relationships in your life how many of them have helped you grow spiritually how many have encouraged you to become a better version of yourself one that reflects the love and character of God these are the relationships that align with God's purpose for your your life the beauty of divine relationships is that they are rooted in something far greater than human desires or emotions they are built on the Eternal truth that God has a plan for you and he will bring the right people into your life at the right time not to satisfy your temporary wants but to fulfill his Divine will it's not always easy to embrace this perspective especially when desires are strong and the world pulls Us in different directions [Music] but we must remember that what God brings into our lives is always purposeful even if it doesn't align with our immediate desires he is the author of our lives and he sees the big picture that we often miss as we move forward in life we must shift our mindset rather than focusing solely on what we want we should ask God what is your purpose for this relationship this is the question that will guide us to not only experience deeper connections with others but also to grow spiritually in ways we never [Music] imagin the relationships that God brings into our lives are those that help us become who he has called us to be those that refine us and sharpen us for his glory when we begin to look at relationships through the lens of purpose Everything Changes we stop chasing after what feels good in the moment and begin to pursue what is good good for us in the long run the question is no longer does this person fulfill my desires but rather does this relationship fulfill God's purpose for my life when we answer this question honestly we begin to realize that God's purpose is always far greater than anything our own desires could ever fulfill God knows exactly who you need in your life and when you need them his timing is perfect and his is always working for your good so as you navigate relationships whether they are friendships family or romantic connections remember that it is not about what you desire in the moment it is about what God is doing through those relationships to shape you into the person he created you to be when we surrender our personal desires and allow God's purpose to lead the way we will experience relationships that are not just fulfilling in the moment but but Eternal in their impact [Music] when you're walking through life and you come across relationships whether romantic friendships or even professional connections it's easy to be swept away by the excitement of emotions and desires but there's a deeper truth that we must understand God's will for our relationships doesn't come with confusion fear or uncertainty it comes with a peace that surpasses all understanding the peace of God is not just a fleeting sense of calm it is a Divine confirmation that you are on the right path it is a sign that God is in control and that his plan is unfolding in your life even when things may not seem clear at first it's easy to mistake a fleeting feeling of excitement for confirmation but true peace has a way of transcending emotions emotional highs can come and go but peace remains constant when you're in alignment with God's plan you may not always understand every detail but there's a peace that confirms you're moving in the right direction it's a peace that calms your soul even when you're facing uncertainty and it reassures you that God is working behind the scenes to bring his purpose to pass there is a difference between the peace that comes from God and the peace that the world offers the world's peace is temporary situational it's dependent on external circumstances but God's peace transcends situations it's not bound by what is happening around you whether you are in the midst of turmoil struggling with difficult decisions or even questioning your next steps God's peace remains unshaken it tells you that no matter what you are exactly where you need to be it reassures you that you don't have to rush you don't have to force things to happen and you don't have to worry about the outcome because God is with you and his peace guards your heart and mind when you are seeking God's will for your relationships whether it's a romantic partner or a trusted friend the peace of God will be your guide it will be the inner Stillness that reassures you that you are aligned with his plan if you find yourself feeling uneasy uncertain or anxious it's time to pause and seek God's Direction God does not lead us through confusion or anxiety his path has always one of peace and when you sense that peace it is a clear sign that he is confirming his will in your life there may be times when the world around you is chaotic when everything seems to be falling apart and when you are tempted to make decisions out of fear or impatience but in those moments if you will quiet your heart and turn to God his peace will be your anchor it will keep you from making hasty decisions and guide you towards the relationships that align with his purpose for your life when God is confirming a relationship whether it's a friendship or something deeper his peace will settle on you it will be a peaceful assurance that you are not alone in this journey that he is with you and that he is unfolding his will in your life when you begin to understand the significance of your destiny in God's Grand Design you realize that every aspect of your life is intricately woven together with purpose your relationships are not just about companionship they are part of a divine plan many people approach relationships with the mindset of seeking fulfillment or satisfaction but a relationship that is truly aligned with God's what carries a deeper more profound meaning relationships when rooted in God's purpose are not just about to hear Now They Are Meant to propel you forward into the future he has prepared for you when God sends people into your life they are not just there to fill an emotional Gap or to bring temporary Joy they are placed there to align with your Divine calling to assist you in moving forward into your purpose your destiny is a path that God has laid out for you in every relationship whether romantic platonic or familial plays a role in that Journey the people you encounter along the way are either Catalyst for your growth or stumbling blocks that challenge you to rise higher however when the relationship is divinely appointed it always pushes you closer to becoming who God has created you to be your destiny is not merely a destination it's a journey it is the unfolding of God's will in your life and those you encounter along this journey whether they are there for a season or a lifetime will either be instruments in helping you fulfill fill that purpose or distractions that try to pull you away from it it is not about finding someone to fill the void but about recognizing the people God places in your life who are there to assist you in your mission they may challenge you they may encourage you and at times they may even correct you but ultimately they are part of God's plan to refine you for Greater Works when you begin to walk in alignment with your purpose the clarity and strength that come from this understanding will allow you to recognize the relationships that are in harmony with God's plan for your life you will see that your interactions with others are no longer random or by chance but are divinely ordained to bring you closer to your purpose relationships founded on purpose are not just about Mutual affection they are about Mutual growth they hold the potential to become a powerful platform for both individuals to step into their Divine calling they are about empowering each other encouraging each other to walk out the mission God has set before them and inspiring one another to rise above [Music] challenges the relationships that are truly aligned with your destiny have the power to lift you higher to inspire you to go further than you ever imagined they speak life into your dreams they believe in your potential even when you struggle to believe in yourself and they are Catalyst for the Manifest ation of God's promises in your life every step you take with these relationships every moment of growth every challenge you face together brings you closer to the fullness of God's will for you it is essential then to view relationships not just through the lens of personal desire but through the lens of purpose ask yourself does this relationship move me forward into my destiny does it align with the calling God has placed on my life if the answer is yes then you are on the right track but if the relationship pulls you away from your higher purpose it may be time to re-evaluate and seek God's wisdom remember that relationships in God's plan are not only about who you're with they're about who you become in the process God places people in your life to challenge you to grow you and to help you become the person he has destined you to be when your relationships are aligned with your Divine calling they become a tool in God's hands shaping you refining you and propelling you toward the Fulfillment of your purpose every connection every conversation every moment with those who walk in alignment with your destiny will ultimately bring you closer to your Divine calling and that my friends is a relationship built not on fleeting desires but on Eternal purpose when we talk about the fruit of the spirit we are speaking of something powerful and transformative not just for our lives but for the relationships we build in Galatians 5:22-23 we find a beautiful description of the qualities that should flow from the heart of every believer who is walking in the spirit love joy peace patience kindness goodness faithfulness gentleness and self-control these qualities are not just characteristics to be Admire from a distance they are Divine markers that should be reflected in our interactions especially in our relationships imagine for a moment what it would be like to be in a relationship where love is not just an emotion but a consistent unwavering commitment to honor serve and uplift one another this kind of love as outlined in 1 Corinthians 13 is not easily angered it is patient it is kind it does not envy and it always seeks the best for the other person when God's love is at the center of a relationship it transforms everything you begin to see each other not through the lens of personal needs or selfish desires but through the lens of God's unconditional love it becomes a love that gives not just takes a love that seeks the well-being of the other person above all else but love is only the beginning when the Holy Spirit is active in a relationship it naturally produces Joy This Joy isn't just about happiness or fleeting moments of pleasure but a deep rooted joy that comes from knowing god is present that he is working and that he is guiding you both toward a higher purpose even in difficult times Joy [Music] persists it's not a joy that comes from external circumstances but a joy that transcends them in the midst of challenges when you walk with God you find strength to Rejoice because you know he is using every moment to refine you and shape you into the people he has called you to be then there is peace the kind of peace that surpasses all understanding this peace isn't just about the absence of conflict it's the kind of peace that comes from knowing that no matter what happens God is in control it's the peace that holds your heart steady even when the world around you is shaking in relationships when both individuals are grounded in the peace of God it creates an atmosphere where trust and safety Thrive there's no need for constant worry or fear because both people know that God is guiding and protecting them this peace becomes the foundation on which the relationship stands and it allows both individuals to grow knowing that their lives are held in God's Loving Hands patience is another fruit that deeply impacts relationships it's the kind of patience that understands that growth takes time that transformation doesn't happen overnight and that people are Works in progress when the Holy Spirit is present you begin to view each other with Grace understanding that sometimes mistakes will happen and flaws will surface but patience allows you to love through the process it's not about tolerating each other it's about genuinely allowing each other to space to grow and evolve patience makes room for forgiveness and growth it gives time for healing and understanding without rushing to judgment kindness is perhaps one of the simplest but most profound manifestations of God's spirit in a relationship where kindness is at the core everything shifts words are chosen carefully actions are deliberate and thoughtful and Care is given freely there is no room for harsh words rude Behavior or indifference instead kindness becomes the language of the relationship it's the willingness to put the other person's needs first to respond with empathy and to offer Comfort when needed it's a kindness that reflects God's goodness to the world and in relationships it becomes the glue that binds hearts together in mutual respect and [Music] love as these fruits of the spirit begin to take root in your relationship they naturally give way to goodness goodness isn't just about doing good things it's about having a good heart a heart that desires to see the other person flourish when you walk in the spirit your desires are transformed to reflect God's goodness to care for others in a way that reflects his goodness and righteousness a relationship built on goodness doesn't seek to tear down or manipulate but rather seeks to build up to encourage to strengthen and to lift up the other person in love faithfulness is another key indicator of a relationship grounded in the [Music] spirit God is faithful to his promises and when we walk in his Spirit we become faithful to each other faithfulness is not just about being loyal it's about being committed unwavering and consistent in your love and dedication in a relationship rooted in faithfulness both people know that they're commitment to each other is not based on temporary emotions or circumstances but on a deeper Covenant a covenant a covenant that reflects God's faithfulness to us it's a trust that says I am with you no matter what and that trust allows the relationship to withstand the stones of life but perhaps the most powerful and subtle fruit is gentleness it's the softness in our approach to one another the humility that allows us to forgive to offer for grace and to respond in love when faced with disappointment or conflict gentleness does not mean weakness it means strength under control in relationships gentleness manifests itself in how we handle each other's vulnerabilities how we speak in moments of tension and how we support each other with tenderness and Care finally self-control is the fruit that keeps everything in balance in a world that is quick to act on impulse and driven by emotions self-control is a divine power that allows you to respond with wisdom it keeps your desires in check and aligns them with God's will self-control allows you to resist the temptation to react harshly or to give in to selfish impulses in relationship self-control ensures that your actions words and attitudes reflect God God's love and purpose rather than your own fleeting desires it helps you to stay focused on the long-term picture on building a lasting meaningful and godly relationship that will honor God in every way when the fruit of the spirit is at work in a relationship the atmosphere changes it becomes a place of transformation a place where both individuals can grow not just together but in their walk with God it's not just about being in love it's about being in love with God first and allowing character to shape every aspect of the relationship as you reflect God's character in your relationship you become a living testimony of his goodness his grace and his love to the world around you this is the fruit that lasts the fruit that brings glory to God and the fruit that will sustain your relationship through every season of life we must remember that relationships when grounded in the fruit of the spirit are not just reflections of our desire or emotions but expressions of God's Divine Purpose the love joy peace patience kindness goodness faithfulness gentleness and self-control that flow from the holy spirit will not only transform our hearts but will also shape the very foundation of the relationships we build these qualities are not just for us to Admire from afar they are meant to be lived out in every interaction every decision and every moment we share with others when we invite God's spirit to guide our relationships we open the door to a life filled with purpose growth and deep connection we begin to see that true love is not merely about what we want or how we feel in the moment it's about reflecting the character of Christ in everything we do as we continue to walk in the spirit May our relationships become vessels of God's love and grace bearing fruit that brings glory to his name and fulfills his purpose for our lives let us remain committed to allowing the fruit of the spirit to guide us trusting that God will lead us into relationships that honor him strengthen us and draw us closer to the Divine Destiny he has prepared for each of us [Music] ...
