We are at number 14. This one will upset many of you. The 14th reason you can’t find love is because you’re looking for unconditional love. ...
We are at number 14. This one will upset many of you. The 14th reason you can’t find love is because you’re looking for unconditional love. The number 14 is such a myth that I want to kill it today. There is no such thing as unconditional love.
When people say they offer unconditional love, they are being dishonest. Or they don’t know they are dishonest because they just repeat what they heard. Or they are blatantly lying to your face.
Let’s explore why. First, the condition that people have is that you must be a human being. That is a condition. Most of you will say of course. However, it is a condition. That kills the idea of unconditional love.
Let’s go. Second, if you are straight, the person must be of the opposite sex. That is another condition. As you can see, unconditional love is dying on the operating table.
Third, you must find something attractive in them. It could be the face, the body, the intellect, the income, the way they dress, the so-called personality, and I can go on. You understand.
Fourth, they must treat you well.
Fifth, they need to have things in common with you.
Sixth, that elusive chemistry you crave so much. You leave when the chemistry is gone.
When a person you care about stops any of these things, you suddenly fall out of love. If a rich man goes broke, you’re out. If a sexy woman gains or loses too much weight, you turn off. And love dries up.
You have so many conditions that I am only scratching the surface. For those of you who are picky, you know, picky people, you have so many conditions that you can drown a fish.
Maybe it’s time to stop lying to yourself and others. Be honest about your terms up front. Otherwise, your partner will be shocked when their so-called unconditional love dries up.
By the way, the closest I’ve ever heard of unconditional love was from Nikola Tesla. He writes about a love story he had with a dove. He said that he felt as if the dove needed him as much as he needed the dove. Tesla was in love with a dove.
Well, that’s all for today. I must fly away. I’ll be back with number 15. Don’t miss it.
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